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Why do men complain that women have "high standards"? (Page 2)
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Women don't have high standards they have impossible standards. And there's plenty of men that whould go after the women you describe but you women don't want them. The reason you think all men have high standards is your all chasing the top 1% of men. Of course those men won't date lower quality women they don't have to. And the other 99% of men by the time your ready to give them a chance have gone through 3 decades of get rejected and called a creep. So the quit the dating game and focus on other parts if thier lives.
Male attraction is about reproduction , life is tough enough without running around chasing fatties , there is enough education out and its extremely important for all that individuals are the correct weight , as the man should always be older of course he will be looking for younger slim women , that's the way the world has always worked , with the exception of weak useless men who have " mumma " issues and are unable to provide.
And this is why there is such division between men and women - Each thinks the other is lame. They just can't seem to get on the same page. Of course, there are both men and women who ARE actually lame. Those are the ones who ruin it for the rest.
Could have summed it up for you or linked you to a video explaining whats going on. But @MrOracle already mentioned the root cause of the issue that's manifesting mainly on dating apps so ill just refer to his opinion on the matter since he worded it very well.
Only those who believe that they do not meet any standards complain about the standards of others. That's true for men and women.
Attraction is a chemical reaction caused by our genetic predisposition to partner selection, hardwired through centuries of evolution.
What it means is no one can be blamed for seeking a partner that is young and fit as opposed to old and unhealthy.
Men have no right to complain about women's physical standards and neither do women as both of them are in the end looking out for themselves and their would-be children
well for a fact her age is none of my concern but i do agree woman have high standarts
it is just not the money when i say high standartsthere are things woman care more about, actually making a lot of money for a woman is a provider thing and providing is not a masculine trait don't get fooled by capitalism.
I don’t generalize.
However, there are some women that do have standards that are too high. Considering they’ll do so much cosmetic surgery, wear makeup etc. and want a complete stunning dude that has good genetics where as without the surgery and makeup the girl is a 2/10 at best.
I’ve seen that
why are you complaining womens standards are too high?
Old balding fat men are chasing women 20 years younger.
Did you not read what I said? I didn’t generalize. I said some women have high standards. Not all.
And yeah, men like that shouldn’t be chasing that either
why shouldn't women have high standards? men certainly have them.
Just like some men shouldn’t, some women shouldn’t. Simple shit
but reality is... women get blamed for having high standards while men aren't. I'm just sick and tired of it.
I’m objective so.
That's bullshit red pill junk. Most guys are still dating women in their 30s, and plenty of women in their 30s look just as good or even better than women in their early 20s.
You have to understand there are guys in the Red Pill cult. They are very noisy online, but they don't speak for all men.
Tbh, I see men chasing all kinds of women, seen rich men married to women way beneath them looks wise.
Men think this because it's been caregorically proven beyond a shadow of a doubt multiple times in multiple different ways, lately anyway.
Though I personally see women with impossibly high standards, and women with mega low standards (which are prob pity things)
But yeah, what you say about men, also true.
Everybody has standards, I don't think that necessarily means being shallow but I guess you could think of it that way. I don't complain about women's high standards. And yes I also prefer younger thinner prettier women. It's just human nature.
Because most of us , myself included, are ugly insecure and gross and we are butthurt that we aren't desired by society. Rejection bullying and isolation boil into complete anger hatred and bitterness at the whole world. If you're wise dont give us uggos a chance if you want to be respected loved appreciated and encouraged date only attractive men they hold no resentments life treats them well and inturn they treat others well.
Because everything relationship and sex wise comes easy to women. It's been proven that most women on dating apps think only the top 5% of guys are attractive. The other 95% get swiped left. Most women that are average think they're entitled to top guys, and only settle when they've tried for years unsuccessfully to get them using sex.
men swipe right even to 60 year old women in hopes that she might fuck him one day. but does that mean he wants to "date" her? NO.
dating apps don't mean anything
when was the last time you ever saw a guy chasing a fat lady 10 years older? NEVER!!!
Even fat girls and ugly girls get boyfriends and sex, average and above average dudes are virgins past 30.
have you seen the shit men say about women over 30 on here?
men say women expire by 30
I don't mind older, but not chubby, it is my personal preference.
I respect every female, regardless of colour, custom, culture, creed and body shape.
Some time my girlfriend's mom wanted go vacation, she is slim and sexy attractive, so enjoy with her.
"do you ever see a man chasing a chubby woman 10 years older? NO!"
not sure what planet you're from but not only have I seen but I personally know men who are lightyears more attractive than me banging this type of women from left to right.
we men never mind lowering our standards, especially when we have no other options. unlike you women who will literally sleep with someone the same gender as you before lowering your unrealistic standards
I am in my thirties, not skinny, and can still attract men 5-10 years younger that have wanted to date me. You shouldn’t let miserable men on the internet set the standard because there is usually a reason why they’re being miserable men on the internet lol.
Logans Run. No certain criteria exists for all men or women. I think that most men who chase younger girls do so because the opportunity didn't present itself earlier. Younger women seem to chase the experience of older men. It's kind of the same example.
"do you ever see a man chasing a chubby woman 10 years older? NO!"
You make it sound like that is what an average girl would chase after... smh, girls dont want some morbidly obese man a decade older than them either lmao. You're right though, men can be just as shallow as women can be. I honestly feel for the ugly girl, or guy; they got it real rough
I mean most of the women do have high standards for their partners, at least for what the modern world has adapted. Even if its not what we want
Because it probably really hurts to admit that you don't meet standards even when standards are low. Therefore they have to tell themselves that's women's standards are too high just so they can feel average instead of lower than low.
Because your standards can never be met
Men start high and lower their standards to increase his odds
Women just keep raising theirs to the point it decreases their odds to 1/1000 of 1% of men measures up to those standards end result is she is all alone with her cats