I told my crush I liked him, but he isn’t interested in dating because he just broke up with his girlfriend - should I wait or should I just move on?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know him very well, but he seems like a good guy and he took the time to be kind and message me to let me know he wasn’t interested in dating etc. Is it worth just waiting a while until he’s ready or should I just move on?

[Orangekiss]

People need time to recover after a breakup. How long that recovery time takes depends on how long they have been together and their feeling about each other. Never contact someone after a breakup trying to get their attention. You may have put yourself on the "ignore" list. I would move on. If he does find an interest in you it may just be as a rebound - someone to have sex with until something better comes along. You made your case, so now rest your case for now.

[Billlewis]

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[Asker]

Thank you for your response, I actually didn’t realise he had been in a relationship, but I do plan to leave him alone anyway. I guess if he’s interested he’ll contact me again.

[Orangekiss]

Yep, the ball is in his court now. 😉

[bededazzle]

just move on. i’m sure he’s going through stuff but if he was really attracted to you he wouldn’t want to lose you

[boggboss]

Move on who knows how long it takes for him to be ready or if he meets someone else he prefers