Is that an acceptable response to ghosting and zombeing?

[Anonymous]

He texted me this after ghosting me for over a week
"Good morning ☺️, how have you been?

Sorry really needed a week or two of absolutely nothing but sleeping and recovering from the year 🙈."


Guys is that an acceptable template? - I kinda want to date him---
"Despite having found that unnecessarily rude (the ghosting & all), that was a smooth slide- I give you that🤭
Unfortunately, it's not going to work out for me, since it depicts really poor communication skills on your end.
So unless you'll be doing better, we could respectfully leave it right there ☺️"

[Anonymous]

A guy can do almost anything as long as the girl finds him hot enough.

The key point here is this:

She said the guy ghosted her, was unnecessarily rude, that it wasn't going to work out because he has poor communication skills... but:

'I kinda want to date him'

[Staximus]

You want to date this wishy washy fuckball? Good luck

[Asker]

Lollllll is it that bad?

[Staximus]

It literally takes one minute to text somebody back or 2 minutes to call them

[Asker]

So you're saying it's going to happen again down the lane.

[Asker]

I kind of want to get somewhere with him.

[Staximus]

"I needed to recover for a week" Unless somebody died or he had the flu, that's a bunch of bitch boy bullshit. Does he have mental problems and he can't deal with life? Do you need to deal with that bullshit? Anybody who ghosts you isn't worth your time. If they can't be bothered to put forth any effort to communicate like a normal human being who gives a fuck then they can go fuck off into the sunset.

[Asker]

MHO 💯💯💯💯 thanks!

[Staximus]

If the guy doesn't have health or mental problems and didn't have a death in the family then he's just 100% bullshit and giving you bullshit excuses

[Asker]

To be fair, he's on the introverted side, and has just gotten his winter break from his MSc programme. Also his mom set us up, online. So we're just nothing but friends lol
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[Staximus]

You have never spent time with this guy in person?

[Asker]

No 😂

[Staximus]

What? Why are you worried about it then you turkey

[Asker]

Not worried. Just asking if that template was acceptable to send back - without any disrespect

[Anonymous]

Ignoring them.

[Asker]

Is that going to get me anywhere?

[Asker]

I asked for the template 😅