So I’m Mexican American, but have some European blood in me from my dad’s side. Anyways, I grew up with Latinas in my school and throughout society. And I’ve only had a handful of them that actually have shown interest in me. Otherwise, they think I’m a white guy. But my dark hair and fair skin makes me feel like an outsider. And as a result, 99% of the time, it’s a white girl that likes me the most. I don’t mind because all I’ve dated was white girls, but I went back to my hometown to visit, and it’s a lot different than where I’m at. When there’s hardly Hispanic people around, but I really want to date Latinas. I’m also not on any dating sites or apps. Should I try that to find what I’m looking for?
Dude don't worry so much about skin color or ethnicity. At the end of the day, what matters most is finding someone you click with as a person, regardless of background.
I get growing up feeling like an outsider may have made you self-conscious, but Latinas are not a monolith. Some will dig you, others won't - just like any girl. Focus on being genuinely interested in who SHE is rather than what box she checks.
Since you're back home, join local social groups. Volunteer, take a class, attend community events. Meet people face to face and let chemistry happen organically. Dating apps can work too, but in-person connects you on a deeper level.
Most important - become confident in who YOU are. Own your mixed heritage proudly. When you really love yourself, others will see that inner light shining through. The right girl will fall for YOUR heart, humor and spirit - not just aesthetics. You got this bro!
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Uh, don't the SJW's say that White People are genetically superior with the most White Privilege? Just get with a self hating Latina, right?
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