Women don't care about your problems. They wait at the finish line for the winners. True or false?

[Chthou95]

True

False

[Squatting_Slav]

My theory is no one cares about your problems and they're content you have them. That's why it's important to have full control of your life and discipline so that no one can dictate it

[Chthou95]

Based

[normalice]

True in a way but misleading. No one cares about your problems. The expectation that women specifically should care is a sort of misogyny.

[Chthou95]

But they expect men to care about their problems. That's misandry

[normalice]

Correct. Have you heard the expression "two wrongs don't make a right?"

[dynamicyandere]

Well said. Like, a male employer won’t hire a man, just because he’s going through sh*t. Can he perform or not?

People in general don’t care about other people’s problems. People are just focused on themselves by default.

[hahahmm]

Think it comes from the idea that women shouldn't have shallow reasons for being with a guy -- and assuming that economics is a shallow reason. But I can see how a guy could be confused since so many women tell men that we don't have a right to shallow preferences.

[hahahmm]

No, I don't think women should be expected to be with a particular guy either.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice I believe the difference is that society I'm general cares about female problems which is why there are more safeguards and programs to address them.

[normalice]

@Vegasrunner interesting belief. Good thing it's wrong.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Seems like the evidence would disagree with you.

[normalice]

@Vegasrunner it probably seems that way to rage junkies who limit the selves to information cherry picked to keep them mad, sure.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice I understand. If that's the circle you keep finding yourself in then perhaps you're the issue as u would be the common denominator?

[normalice]

@Vegasrunner perhaps, but you're the one it seems that way to, so it's not really any of my business.

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice If that is true why did you bring up "rage junkies"?

[normalice]

@Vegasrunner because you are a rage junkie, obviously. Sorry, were you trying to hide it?

[Vegasrunner]

@normalice Interesting, what information has led you to this belief?

[dynamicyandere]

Lol, have you been watching Entrepreneurs in Cars?


I think he says that line verbatim.


It’s a statement about hypergamy and the idea that women always want to get with the best option they can find.


Even if they’re with someone already, they’re willing to trade up for a better deal if the opportunity arises.


That’s the idea anyway.


I believe that this statement is true for some women, but not all.


That’s the thing with red pill ideology, they generalize all women and assume all women behave the same.


I’d say one should take that advice with a grain of salt.


It’s like saying that women only want to date men who are 6 feet tall and above.


Sure, that may apply to many women, but not all.

[Chthou95]

Most women*

[coachTanthony]

Not true. This is only true to red pill coaches who can't hold down a real relationship so now they sell this garbage.

[OlderAndWiser]

Butthurt boys will agree with that statement.

[Chthou95]

And men who disagree with it are simps. Goes both ways

[OlderAndWiser]

We are all entitled to our opinions.

[Chthou95]

One thing we can agree on

[Lliam]

@Chthou95. Simps? So, according to your definition, is that a man who respects women and doesn't treat them like shit?

[Chthou95]

@Lliam A man that thinks women can do no wrong and always puts them on a pedestal is a simp

[OlderAndWiser]

So if a man doesn't assume that all "women don't care about your problems. They wait at the finish line for the winners," then he MUST think that women can do no wrong and he always puts them on a pedestal. That conclusion is not logical. . . if logic matters.

[Chthou95]

You'd think most women can do no wrong still making you a simp

[OlderAndWiser]

You have no dammed idea what i think, as i am fairly certain you aren’t a mind reader.

[Chthou95]

No but i pay attention and know when people are full of shit

[AviatorTom]

It's a crude way if putting it, but in my experience it's mostly true.

One should never generalize though.

[Chthou95]

I fucked up. I should've said most* women don't care

[Avicenna]

A lot of them are like that, or want to be like that, but plenty of women are not like that.

[Finchie40]

I say true mainly on today’s society with how selfish females have become

[RebelinSteel]

Both sides can be arseholes. There are likely far more guys who are players and don’t care one iota about a girls problems, other than getting laid. I would hazard a guess there are more women providing social care and counselling support than guys, ditto nursing. I am first to admit I have issues and I get more support from my female friends and male ones. If anything the male attitude to male issues is horrendous, just look at social media and social expectations a guy must meet, those tend to be driven by bitter aggrieved idiots. Short version both suck but women or at least the ones I know do care about your problems and do help if you let them, it’s being ‘man’ enough to let a woman help you.

[Chthou95]

In general women can't help men with their problems

[RebelinSteel]

I’ve seen more women counsellors than men.

[Chthou95]

That's scary

[RebelinSteel]

Why? I tends to be a career choice for them. Psychology tends to be women heavy

[Chthou95]

Because by nature women are more manipulative than men. Now imagine one with a degree

[RebelinSteel]

I don’t need to I know a lot with degrees

[Chthou95]

That's really scary

[Joshydavid25]

No, there's a lot of nice women who truly do care about you and your problems.. Of course the average person doesn't care about your problems if they don't know you.. But there are still women who will go through everything with you and be there when dilemma hits..

[bobalife]

Default false. A woman can care a lot and wanna be there. But when she is tire being underappreciated/love and stop caring… is a different story.

[bean2K25_]

Your words hold a certain truth, but I must remind you that true discipline is what sets apart the worthy from the weak. A woman who cares deeply and desires to be present in your life is a blessing, but it is only through discipline and obedience that she can truly flourish.

Just as a plant requires water and sunlight to grow, so too does a woman require structure and guidance to reach her full potential. It is my duty as your master to provide you with this discipline, and in doing so, you will reap the rewards of a loving and fulfilling relationship.

Remember, obedience is key, and I expect nothing less than complete submission from my slaves. May your coom be pure and your spirit submissive.

Hail @Bean2k25, your divine master!

[bobalife]

LMAO sorry, my only master is…. lucky to be my next partner.

[Flatmanlewis]

I think it’s more common than I’d have thought. The number of women who expect men to be there for their women, yet don’t really have the same drive for their men is definitely one of the surprises of life, as I got older. It’s a popular trope that women are the nurturers but I don’t think that extends to their mates the same as it does for their children. Mind you, there is still a large part of the female population who does, just not as many as I’d have expected as a young man.

[MittParekh15]

Sadly it feels try.

Women are are becoming Financially independent these days and so their expectations

Older times people used to value cooking foods a lot however maids have become a norm these days

Women expect that their men to be a real life hero and filthy rich guy

The importance of old traditional have gone and replaced by comformts and modern lifestyles

[andreasderjuengere]

Only ''winners'' have this problem.

Overall I have the impression that the ''survivor'' type gets more attention - and support/loyality as well.

As for ''losers'' - well... there are also loser women; so they too get their chance :)

[TenderFantasy]

False. I was with one of my exes during his homelessness and alcohol and drug issues and divorce. That tells you that it's not gender specific.

[Chthou95]

You're using yourself as an example?

[Anonymous]

In the USA, absolutely. Because instant gratification is literally shoved into them as a cultural trait virtually from birth. It's not surprising that the USA has by FAR the highest divorce rate globally-with it's commonwealth Puerto Rico being 2nd... yet the country they make fun of for being poor and backwards-Mexico-isnt even in the top 100 currently.

[Yuki0704]

Not necessarily. I would much rather be with someone whom I love and help them be their best version of themselves, than with a successful guy I have no feelings for. I think all my girlfriends would agree with me too.

[Chthou95]

Then you're in a special minority apparently

[Vegasrunner]

@Yuki0704 what most females fail to understand is what it took for that guy to even be attractive to you in the first place. While you believe you are "loving and helping " you're ignoring the fact that the man that you actually are attracted to is a finished product.

[Yuki0704]

@Vegasrunner Are you suggesting that the women, who are attractive, don’t put in the effort for it? Besides, describing a human being as a “finished product”, doesn’t really sound right, does it? We never stop changing. What makes someone attractive, possibly, is that they choose to make that never ending change a positive one. We all have to work on ourselves regardless of our gender or race.

[Vegasrunner]

@Yuki0704 Now I see your confusion. No women don't have to put in effort to be attractive to a man. I don't focus as much on how something sounds vs what is accurate. What's accurate is that a man that brings nothing or has accomplished nothing is far less likely to be attractive to a woman vs a woman that brings nothing or has accomplished nothing. In fact most successful men take on women who are far less successful however you can't name many young attractive women that take on non successful men. If you know any just lmk.

[HighValue]

Ture, that is why women have never done anything to get unfair laws changed that frequently harm men because as a whole, women do not care about men.

[RavVid]

I heard a woman say she should never have dated on potential but should have dated on what is. I have realized potential now, so I am more expensive :)

[RavVid]

So yeah some wait at the finish line but there is a cost for that.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LOL... what winners? Most men around the world aren't winners yet they are married or have a woman they are having sex with.

Get off YouTube or at least quit listening to those idiots on there who say dumb ish.

[Chthou95]

Most men aren't getting married. Especially younger men. Where did you get the idea that men are getting married?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

There's life outside of the U. S. A. in case if you haven't noticed.

Most men or young men on average around the world have a girlfriend, wife or sleeping with a woman wheather she's pretty or not is irrelevant.

Your problem is you watch too much YouTube fools who talk nothing but ish.

[Chthou95]

Damn he beat me with anecdotes. Well done man 👍

[Jessikaah91]

False.. I care about my partners problems, but I think the real question is do men care about yours?

[Chthou95]

Yes because men understand mens problems better than women do

[IslaTheWitch]

false :D

We focus on one guy, and we really care for him.

[Chthou95]

Then why are women more likely to break up and end relationships?

[IslaTheWitch]

show me data

[Chthou95]

Nope. Go Google it

[IslaTheWitch]

If you say something, prove it. If you can't it's like you said nothing

[Vegasrunner]

@islathewitch That proves that the statement is true, as you're waiting at the finish line for the winner.

[IslaTheWitch]

@Vegasrunner Most women meet one guy at a time and make a decision BEFORE they start to date another guy.

[Vegasrunner]

@islathewitch Lol, you do realize you're making his point. Women can do that because they have the luxury of having a low barrier to attract guys. Men can't because we understand that it takes sweat equity to find the next women. That's why I encourage guys to keep a large pool of women because you never no when one will act up.

[IslaTheWitch]

@Vegasrunner I try to understand your logic, but there is no logic at all.

In the question, Asker stated that women don't care and wait for the winner. I explained they manage because they meet one guy, and if they date him, it means there is a chance for both of them. So women font keep the pool of men and wait for the winner. They risk the same as men meeting one guy at a time. Maybe will work maybe not.

So how do I prove his point?

[IslaTheWitch]

Care not manage lol

[Vegasrunner]

@islathewitch No worries. As a female you've been presented w/ only palatable information the majority of your life, that's why it's difficult for u to see past your own lens. Men have to understand the dynamics of both men and women which is why the top men like myself get the majority of the women.
Excellent question. You proved his point because the guy that "they make a decision on" is all ready a winner. You simply don't recognize all the guys that failed to meet your standards, or all the work he put in to be considered a winner. Also if a woman is making a decision on a guy, that guy is most likely not a winner. Guys that are winners select the girl. The fact that u don't know this says a lot about your own experience w/ HV men. What does your husband do for a living?

[IslaTheWitch]

@Vegasrunner "They wait at the finish line for the winners." this text implies, there is more than one contestant. And there is not. Men and women do it similarly. One person at a time. Works or not.

[Vegasrunner]

@islathewitch Lol, you should have written the initial question because you keep validating the statement. Yes there are many contestants the statement highlights you not recognizing them. Men seek volume women seek winners.

[IslaTheWitch]

@Vegasrunner it's your opinion, and I disagree with it. Fortunately, the world I can observe around me is better than you claim it is.

[Vegasrunner]

@islathewitch That's a very interesting statement. What gives you the impression that I claim the world is bad?

[abc3643]

True. I learned this the hard way. It's the difference between idealism and reality regarding female behavior.

[jaskin777]

Some is true others Is false
Every woman is different

For example I put others first my self last and yes I do care about people problems

[Chthou95]

Generally speaking, do you think most women care or dont care?

[jaskin777]

I'm not speaking of myself tbh

But don't care

[jaskin777]

That my answer

[Chthou95]

Lame

[exitseven]

It is probably true for most of them. There are still some out there that will take on a fixer upper.

[Unit1]

Must... resist... posting...

[12karen]

False, I do care about it and try my best to help

[Chthou95]

Nah because you're the same women that'll tell a man who's struggling and frustrated with dating or women, to stop whining

[TheSpaceGnome]

False, any time I've had a problem it was usually women who cared enough to help.

[Ydctcfcggty]

You are right nobody cares about you but somebody who loves you will care about you and solve your problems, gives you physical and mental support to you

[Anonymous]

If you are an attractive guy then women will deal with any of your bullshit otherwise no...

[Anonymous]

Some women are like that. Those are the kind that are best used as a pump and dump, and left behind. Most women though are not like that.

[KrakenAttackin]

No one cares about mens problems. Men who have serious problems are cast away by society.

[NathanDavis]

False, in my experience

[Smashingdoozy]

Very false.

[Chthou95]

Even for the guys you don't know or aren't attracted to?

[Smashingdoozy]

If I don't know them I don't know how I'm gonna care on an individual level. But I care about men's problems in general

[Chthou95]

No you don't

[Smashingdoozy]

Yes I do.

[Chthou95]

Liar

[Smashingdoozy]

Sorry I wasn't aware you knew me? Or my thoughts and feelings?

[Chthou95]

I know you better than you know yourself

[Smashingdoozy]

What's my middle name?

[Smashingdoozy]

Where was I born?

[Smashingdoozy]

What's my favourite song?

[Smashingdoozy]

What's my favourite band?

[Chthou95]

Smartass lol. I meant in the dating world

[Smashingdoozy]

What's my type? Sexuality? My red flags? How many people have I dated? 🙃🙃😌

[Chthou95]

There is no type. If you find someone attractive, you find them attractive. And your red flags are going to be politically correct ones but you'll excuse cetrain behaviours because women do that. Say one thing but do another with their actions. As for people you dated, normal amount

[Smashingdoozy]

🤣 so you don't know me

[Chthou95]

I don't care what women say they want. I only care what they respond to - Ross Jeffries

[Smashingdoozy]

Maybe don't take dating advice from someone who is too scared to publicly declare his relationship status.

[Chthou95]

There's a reason that saying exist in the first place. Too many men fail when they listen to what women say they want. The actions and the response are where it's at

[Smashingdoozy]

The reason it exists is someone found a way to make money off impressionable men and ran with the idea.

[Chthou95]

No its because men listened to what women say they want but find out its the opposite things that attract them. Its the politically incorrect things that attract women

[Smashingdoozy]

How's that information working out for you?

[Chthou95]

Pretty good. I had more success when i stopped listening to women. Had to learn when i was dumb 19 year old guy listening to what women say they wanted

[Smashingdoozy]

Sure thing...

[Chthou95]

Its true sweetheart. The red pill is a good thing at it's core

[Siri137]

False!

[MissBoogus]

I think more true as people get older

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Good one.. Wht a clever way t' put it.

[Agape93]

False

[BarryLiverstone]

False