How would you feel if your friends/family started interrogating your crush about dating you?

[Anonymous]

[ScienceThumper]

It depends on the race.

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[ScienceThumper]

@Thanks_for_the_MHO

[Lionman95]

I think it depends on the intensity and on the question who of them does it. Because I would less a problem with my friends since they have more in common with me than my family. Nonetheless I´m close with both groups.
For me there I wouldn´t have a problem if they spend time without me to get my fiance or partner and I would be open to do the same for her friends and family but always with the limit that it doesn´t get to a level where either one gets uncomfortable. Because if the one person friends and family try to get to know feels narrowed down or threatened that´s too far.
The reason is that friends and family are often close people to a person so they might be able to see redflags a person in love might not see. Many of modern relationship problems occur in my opinion because people get intimate and excluse either very quickly or with people they don´t get along well in the long term. Since modern day is something many people do alone so it´s easy to fall for the wrong person.

[Screenwriter]

I'd spend a lot less time around people who are so incredibly invasive and nosy. And maybe I'd get some new friends. Family, you're sort of stuck with, but you don't live with them. You just visit. Visit less often.

Wow!

[IslaTheWitch]

I think he would handle it well :D And I don't really have any secrets... so... as long as he doesn't complain, I don't mind.

[hahahmm]

Would indicate that you never bothered to tell your friends/family anything about this person & they are suddenly faced with a total stranger & have questions. And/or that you have a history of picking bad partners and they're concerned for you. The other possibility is that they're just controlling... but I had a controlling type mom and she never actually interrogated anybody until I had already decided 1000% I wanted to be with them. Short of that, she never did. She only interrogated me. Ha.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm trained in counterinterrogation and interrogation resistance.

I've also had the parents of three of the women I was dating at the time collect my fingerprints. The last I was kind enough to provide all ten.

Didn't make anything different for me.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I would be a bit upset. That is a bit too much meddling in my business. If they're not happy with how I am pursuing someone, perhaps they should talk to me.

[JacobJordan]

I made it super clear that they were welcome to ask questions but don't push because my wife is not American and like myself she despises people prying into her personal life.

[DizzyDesii]

They’ve always done that and i’ve always snapped on them

[Dan_5001]

This happened to me at college and the girl I was dating was in to me untill people in my class started interrogating her about why are you spending time with him etc...

[KittygosMeoWW]

I understand if they want to protect me but it’s a bit unnecessary

[Shy_Steve]

I would be angry and upset with them if they were making Her feel like that.

[Billlewis]

I wouldn't like that at all.

[Francesca1994_]

I be like wtf.