Do you frequently meet people who say they might be moving?

[red324]

I swear I went on at least 10 dates where the girl said she could be moving away on like the first or second date. So why are you wasting my time then? I wonder if they just were just looking for a casual hookup type thing? I don't know. I don't usually try and hookup on the first couple dates and by then I never heard from then.

[serious_miss419]

“So why are you wasting my time “
Why do you allow them to? Why bother?

[red324]

They wait until the date to tell me this.

[red324]

They probably just wanted to hookup and I'm too dumb to realize it at the time

[serious_miss419]

Make it part of some the things you speak about before consider meeting them

[red324]

I guess so. Personally I never thought it was that likely, how often do people move away? You mean hooking up or figure out if they're moving? Lol

[serious_miss419]

Ask someone questions before you meet them. Too find out if they’re someone you’d like to invest in.
Do they have kids, are they moving, do they work, are they divorced, do they do drugs, etc
Just an idea.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Did you pay for their food?

[red324]

Yeah

[Zestyassmf1997]

Bruh…you’re getting used for a free dinner.

[red324]

Well they don't bring this bs up until we're on the date. It's only the 1st date. Might as well tell her she gets to pay her half of the bill at that point.

[Zestyassmf1997]

You should, yeah.