Worse places to meet a girl are?

[Vegasrunner]

Church

Through Friend Group

Library

School

A total of 19 votes were cast: 6 girls and 13 guys. See detailed results

[Summeroflove]

Honesty every one of those is reasonable. I think the worst are bars and clubs. Not saying everyone who goes there is bad. Another try int is approaching women you don’t know

[Summeroflove]

I picked library since it’s the most out there

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove To meet women? What man that's good w/ women has ever went around talking about how many he met at church?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know? I said it’s a good place to meet likeminded people

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Random answer to a question not even asked.

[slatyb]

I did all my dating online as I was looking for women I want likely to find otherwise..

[adam6402]

I mean they're all fine but for me meeting a girl in a library seems the most unlikely.

The first time I met my current girlfriend was at church, I had to do with her more at school a bit later on, and then got to know her through my friend group.

[Sour-rose]

I was gonna say the bathroom but... a church seems bad too. Just because they think i'm god fearing and don't swear, act unladylike or a abomination to god. Honey... my name is "Sour Rose".

[XXblack88]

Well church is only a good option if you actually have faith.

[Summeroflove]

That is true. Don’t want the lukewarms

[Vegasrunner]

@xxblack88 Church is one of the worse according to the polls. Where do you meet the girls you date?

[XXblack88]

@Vegasrunner I don't date girls. but I would suggest you date girls who are involved in the same things your involved in weather that be sports 'Hobbies etc.

[Vegasrunner]

@xxblack88 Lol, then you wouldn't be the best person to provide an opinion, not even sure why you would. It does explain why you would select the worse option, though and highlights why men should never listen to women when it comes to relationships.

[XXblack88]

@Vegasrunner You miss the part where I said it's only a good option if you have faith. I don't think church should be an option for everyone who's just looking for a partner. I would say the samething if a woman ask how dose she meet a man.

[Vegasrunner]

@xxblack88 Women don't typically approach men so that's not really relevant. Faith or no faith Church is a terrible place to meet women and the poll agrees.

[Summeroflove]

There is women who approach men. Those women usually get who they want and aren’t limiting their opinions to only who approached them. Sure they get rejected. But at least while it sucks. They aren’t wasting their time in guys who aren’t going to approach anyways

[Vegasrunner]

@Summeroflove That number is statistically insignificant but thanks for sharing

[Anonymous]

The abortion clinic? You know they putting out.😆😆😆

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous I've actually met a couple chick's at a planned parenthood clinic b4

[Alwayreckles93]

If you want a traditional woman that will respect you. I say church a woman of God will always put her husband first.

[Vegasrunner]

@alwayreckles93 Some, TBH Church girls are the freakiest, I'm sure you're familiar w/ the Pastors daughter stereotype. Also compared to other places there's way better places to meet chicks.

[Alwayreckles93]

Well I guess some love to gossip. I've seen some of my church friends putting eyes on the guy is has been baptized or soing missionary work. I can see that you havea point. Now have you dated a christian girl?

[Alwayreckles93]

You do have a point woma from my ex congergation love love to gossip.

[Vegasrunner]

@alwayreckles93 Yes, quite a few.

[Alwayreckles93]

Do you seebthem being more judgmental?

[Vegasrunner]

@alwayreckles93 That has not been my experience w/ them

[BoopBoopBeep]

Bars and clubs. All the ones you listed work out pretty well from my experience, as long as the people are YOUR friends as well.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep Those are obviously the best places to meet women, as there will be a lot of them and they will be liquored up.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
No I was saying bars and clubs are the worst place to meet women. I don't want some party girl. Now I've met a great many high caliber women at a martini bar or a wine bar, but pretty much if they serve beer, that'd be a no-go.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep No such thing as a high caliber women as women will be judged by the caliber of man they can keep.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
The high caliber women are the ones who hold my interest.

But, provided yoru statement is true, still changes nothing. I'm not going bottom fishing for party girls at clubs.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep I'm not sure who suggested you do. Going to clubs was not even an option in the poll question. TBH the proof would be in your success how many women have you slept with?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
Nobody suggested anything. Are you day drinking? Not judging... some days are like that. The question was where's the worse place to meet them a through d... I answered e - bars and clubs. What proof are you talking about? I'm not trying to prove anything. I don't feel the need to prove anything in real life much less the internet. I'm answering a question not arguing a doctoral thesis.

Share whatever you have going on over there.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep So you created an option out of thin air why? If you claim that bars are "worse then that means that you have success somewhere else, yet you don't, so saying bars are worse seems incorrect based on your own results.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
I'm honestly not sure who you're having a conversation with because your responses don't match my words. I've had success at bars, I've had success outside of bars. The caliber of woman you pick up at a bar is lower, which is why it is the worst place to meet a girl. There were only 4 options. As at least one other user pointed out, all 4 of those options are great places to meet a girl, so I provided one that sucks. To wit, bars and clubs.

Honestly I don't know how to make this any clearer.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep It's unfortunate that you're confused, however seems as if a lot of it comes from your reluctantly to participate in the conversation. Claiming you've had "success" seems hollow w/out defining said success, not to mention your response contradicts itself? If you've had the success you claim then why would bars be even considered an option seeing how there are plenty of places where you've has no success? You could make it clear by answering a direct question, avoiding it highlights deception. How many women have you slept with?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
Are you okay?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545
what would you call this?

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep Doing quite well TY for asking, however not sure how that relates to the direct question posed to you.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe this sentence translated poorly. " If you've had the success you claim then why would bars be even considered an option seeing how there are plenty of places where you've has no success?"

Everything is an option. There are good options, like your good friends, and bad options, like the crack house.

I've never had success in Bali. I've also never been there. What does that have to do with anything? There are quite literally thousands of places in the world where I've had no success. Remember the first place you had a drink? I had no success there. I don't even know where it is. Not sure what country it is. The place where I drop off my recycling... no success. The place where you drop off YOUR recycling, I've had no success there. Mecca? That's another one. Never had success there. The bread aisle at a small deli in Nova Scotia? Never had success there. I should start visiting these places so I can change that?

Enlighten us what your overall point is? You're a super stud and get laid a lot? Okay. Nobody cares. You're not relevant to any of us. You're really trying to have a competition with a man on the internet about who gets laid more? How old are you? No I mean really, not what your profile says. You've asked me that on another question and I told you then I didn't know. Do you think I suddenly went back in time and began cataloging such minutiae?

Now let's assume that we're not on the internet where everyone can lie. You could say you've been laid 3 times and I say I've only been laid once, then the next guy walks in and says he's been laid ten times. Well, you know what, chief? There's always that ugly girl at the end of the night that's accepted slim pickings and will go home with anyone, so "how many times" is inherently a flawed conversation. Somebody can get laid 50 times a day at the local druggie joint with a handful of clean needles. Is that the metric of success?

That's the longer version of "are you okay?"

[msc545]

Loose associations and hostility.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 Haha tango mike partner.

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep TY for sharing that and I hope you feel heard, however I fail to see the relevance to the conversation you started. Much of what u said doesn't pertain to me so I can't speak on it. As for what does if you had "success" in bars then please explain why that would be a "worse option"

[msc545]

✔✔👍👍

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Vegasrunner
Everybody else reading this chain understands bro. You're on your own.

[msc545]

Boop this is the sort of thing that helps me to explain why it is that I sometimes charge a little bit more than usual for some stuff. Never never to friends of course!

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 Do you have clients (or... whatever they're called) that are this dense/persistent? They must end up owing quite a king's ransom by the time they're done.

[msc545]

Patients. Actually much worse.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 God bless you brother. I don't know how you do it. I mean, not just from the "having the patience for it" but the actual getting it through their head part. And that's coming from someone who talked to terrorists for a living. That's WAY easier.

[msc545]

Thank you, Boop. God bless you for keeping us all safe.

[msc545]

AND for risking your life to do it!

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 I know some of the people you deal with... don't think I don't know you're risking yours as well ;)

[msc545]

A little bit, yes. I am fairly good at disarming people with my words, luckily.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@msc545 Not a bad skill to have. The best battle is the one you never have to fight

[Vegasrunner]

@BoopBoopBeep I agree which is why they were able to simply cast a vote based on the provided options. Claiming there's a "worse" option then simultaneously saying you have success at said worse option is contradictory at best.

[msc545]

Exactly. or at least the one you can walk away from...

[slatyb]

Those are all fairly good places to meet a partner. Hitting on attractive strangers one encounters in the street is unlikely to succeed.

[Vegasrunner]

@slatyb You would hope that the stranger is attractove

[slatyb]

I would expect that the person initiating the contact finds the other attractive, but the chances of success are quite low.

[Vegasrunner]

@slatyb Depends on your overall value, but even the top guys probably only get about 10% of the chicks they go after, however that percentage is much higher than the numbers for the listed options

[exitseven]

I would say through a friend groups if it goes sideways you might have to find a new group of friends

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Those seem safe, Id say the worst place would be at a AA-like meeting for people with STDs

[Yannae]

When you're in that dark place called depression.

[Vegasrunner]

@Yannae That sounds more like a time vs a place

[Staximus]

Clubs are the worst place

[Vegasrunner]

@staximus To meet women? How many woman have you been. With?

[Staximus]

Yeah you will meet plenty there but they are going to be skeezers

[Vegasrunner]

@staximus How many women have you been with?

[Staximus]

Enough to know that I don't want a club skeezer.

[Vegasrunner]

@staximus How many have you actually been w/?

[msc545]

@Vegasrunner You need to stop asking that question. It is irrelevant and none of your business. Nobody will answer you.

[Vegasrunner]

@msc545 If one is bragging about their "success" w/ women then asking them to quantify that success is an obvious question. Not answering provides just as much onfo as an answer.

[msc545]

As I said before and which you apparently don't understand, there are certain questions that you probably should not ask because first of all nobody will answer them. In second of all, the answer is none of your fucking business. It doesn't matter if a potential answer would serve your rhetorical purposes or not. But keep on asking that question and watch how quickly men on here shun you.

[FunkyMonkee]

Worse than what?

[msc545]

Family Law Court.

[CozyCoffin]

DMV.

[Syrskyi]

Toilet