Girls, honest opinion on paying 50/50 on dates? (Page 2)

[RingOfFire]

It goes against the natural design of men and women. Men are the providers. Women who do this think they have something to prove. It is a sign of insecurity on their part. It's a mild form of the mental disorder of feminism.

[RingOfFire]

I would never go on a date with a woman who doesn't want me to pay for the date and who doesn't appreciate that I do. Nature has different roles for men and women. Women who are brainwashed with the woke idea that they are the same and live their lives trying to prove it are probably the biggest turnoff I can think of. I want to date a woman who is happy to be a woman and not think she has to act like a man to be respected. I don't want to date a man. 🤮

[NathanDavis]

all women feel differently...

the real special thing to do is to recognize that, in each of them... and not to assume that what you prefer to do with all of them is the right thing to do

[DarkWinterNights]

First dates should be 50/50. It leaves no room for either party to feel exploited or indebted. It’s 2024 now and we can’t just erase women’s gender roles but expect mens to stay the same.

[Jennuine]

Mandatory in the beginning.. And then dependent on work situations...

[Asker]

Exactly, it changes after the beginning stages

[KrakenAttackin]

I would never ask a woman to pay for anything on a date, but I only date honest traditional women.

Modern women? 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[HelpfulWoman]

-should be the standard unless previously discussed and AGREED to.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Nope. I'd get up and walk away. Why would a guy ask you out and can't afford to take you out?

[WhyohWhy69]

I always offer to pay half. If he says no, I offer to pay for drinks or appetizer and gratuity. He usually still says no though.

[Billlewis]

@WhyohWhy69 I'd try my hardest to dissuade you from paying one cent towards the cost of a date, because you are absolutely magnificent, and I'd consider myself lucky just to have the privilege of kissing your luscious feet afterwards.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

The one who asked for the date should pay regardless of what gender asked for it. If both agreed on 50/50 that's not my business if they have mutual a agreement. I would prefer to pay on a date also because I am the one more likely to ask for it.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's pretty much the same as someone who would host a party or event, The one who host should pay.

[DizzyDesii]

Preferred for the first date or two. After that we can take turns on footing the entire bill

[Anonymous]

Whoever initiated the date should pay for the date. Otherwise it’s not a date, but “hanging out”

[Anonymous]

It's a man's job to ask a woman out and pay for the date. That's just the way it is.

[JacobJordan]

Whoever asks pays. Simple. That being said I have always asked so I always paid.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m not opposed to it however if you’re making more money than me and ordered more food lol you should pay.

[IslaTheWitch]

I prefer to pay for myself

[IslaTheWitch]

Paying for me doesn't make me feel special. Try to find something you know I would like or something that interests me and add it to the date. It will make me feel special. It means you put an effort to get to know me.

[Asker]

I agee with, hence why I prefer just organizing something fun well in advance as for something both to look forward to whether it be a holiday, weekend getaway concert or cinema

[IslaTheWitch]

Let's agree to disagree lol

[Asker]

Nah let's disagree to agree 😜

[IslaTheWitch]

Works for me, lol

[msc545]

Women absolutely LOVE money they don't have to work for yet benefit from, and they make up a lot of excuses as to why it's ok and justified ( "Invest in me" and all that bullshit). They just want free stuff.

[Awomanof]

Going dutch is best. Because if a woman doesn't pay her date personally, a man might think a woman was his property over time

[antnd]

50/50, im not here for pay her diner, i dont meet her, we meet together. If she’s not happy, i will find another im not sad for that

[marish01]

That is how it should be

[Babygirl_S]

I am okay with it.