Online dating/dating is brutal for guys, how come the majority of girls don't understand or are open to hear the male experience of dating apps?

I am 30, I'm 6ft2 I'm very attractive not to brag just to offer a perspective.
I recently started dating seriously for one year.
I was an overweight more "uglier" looking guy before so I know both sides of the coin of dating apps.
At the start of my dating journey, I went on many dates with girls I thought were ok looking not super attractive... of-course I wasn't well versed in dating and was probably interviewing them etc also seemed to be how I felt valued by the app in terms of the girls i was matching with. Later on became more experienced in dating. To me it seems the dating apps favours big sample size of girls... like slightly less average looking girls - and favours immensely the attractive girls no doubt in comparison to the guys... this seems a no brainer to many of you who may read this. When I am with my female friends or meet new (female) people and the topic arises... its a shock and a frustration to me in my mind how there is no awareness or knowledge about this. The vast majority think both men and women have it the same in online dating. Many people may say that looks is not everything... I agree with that notion and many people may say this... but to me it seems that this is a diversion for my experience to lay blame and not recognise my experience. I am confident in who I am as person and who I am in my personality. I find that society now is reliant on dating apps and there is far too much choice for the majority of women. Sometimes I feel quite validated by dating apps and feel on top of the world and feel validated and relieved... Dating apps can really knock your self esteem sometimes. I must admit that recently maybe the stars have align or there moon is full or something lol... I have been more fortunate that I have been going out with girls I'm really attractive too which is validating and perhaps maybe my algorithm is changing for the best.

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My main point is if it's not a walk in the park for me... Imagine what the average guy has to deal with... I really empathise with men. It's not an easy task. Often or not I will hear more about how men are so disgusting on the apps. Which I can understand how it could happen. I am always respectful but lets say someone similar to me wants a hook up he will message girls who he may be perceived less conventionally attractive and message like 20 girls...
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lets say 19 are absolutely disgusted by that crude very forward first message... but one of the girls accepts the offer of a casual hook up. We can agree it can feel hurtful for those other girls to be subjected to that, but what about the girl that accepts the offer is that interaction of both consenting counterparts is that acceptable?
Online dating/dating is brutal for guys, how come the majority of girls don't understand or are open to hear the male experience of dating apps?
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