Women claim that dating is difficult for them also and the reason being quantity over quality. They are getting lots of matches but most of them aren't worth it. Well most women are average, most men are average, so how can the average woman call the average man below her?
You have to understand for starters that most women on dating apps are angry that they're on a dating app to begin with. Most women feel dating apps beneath them. Read thier bios, look at how many say "we can say we met somewhere else". Because she doesn't want to admit that had to resort to a dating app. So how do you think things are going to go when a woman has a negative attitude going in?
Secondly the next thing women hate about dating apps. Is the cannot hide why they are there. That's why you see so many women put in thier bios, "just seeing what's out there". She wants to make it clear she's just really window shopping, she doesn't really need a dating app.😆. Women have a silly pride about this.
Thirdly, and this piggybacks on point number 2. Because she can't hide why she's there it exposes her. If she's at bar with friends she can say she's just out with her friends and she is not looking to meet any guy and she has plausible deniability. She can't do that on a dating app. It OBVIOUS why she's there. Women don't like ceding that high ground, in the dating war so to speak.
So you see they don't have it tough. They just lose all of thier advantages on dating apps. That's why they don't like it.
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Women don't go on dating apps to get average men, they go on them to get top 5% (or better) men. This is no less true of a 3/10 then it is for a 9/10. Most women consider themselves to be a 10/10, so why would they waste time with an average guy? Average guys are invisible to them.
Meanwhile, every woman matches with or is in the DMs of all of the top 5-10% men, and those men just use them for casual sex and then discard them like a used Kleenex.
That's why online dating is completely toxic and a waste of time.
When they say the men who match them aren't worth it they aren't talking about looks. They are talking about them not being fit for an actual relationship. Things like being here only for sex, being married, being a deadbeat bum,(which does not mean they are looking for a millionnaire either), having kids he either abandoned or are trying to force on you, being a woman hater... All that sorts of thing. If you think a man being all of these things makes him an average man well sorry but most average women are out of their leagues then. Again not talking about looks but about being fit for a relationship.
The "average" man is starting the conversation like "nice rack mama".
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Maybe the subpar men are much more active on dating sites.
An average woman can easily get free casual sex. However, most want a committed long-term relationship. They want a boyfriend to love and to be loved. This makes it difficult, about the same as for a man.
On the way there, she will usually be expected to "put out". In addition, the guy will wonder if she gives head and how well she does it, among other things.
You could say she hands out free samples of sex. However, many men are in it only for these samples and will move on at the soonest opportunity.
This can cause frustration and it is also a bit disgusting in the long run, to be honest."Well most women are average, most men are average, so how can the average woman call the average man below her?"
She can't, at least not without being a hypocrite.
I don't like most women on dating apps, but I'm also not average.Feminism and social media have convinced the average woman that she is better than the average man, which obviously isn't true. So now these women hold out for men they don't qualify for until they hit the wall, then they die alone.
it's like a rich person living in luxurious mansions claiming they have more problems than a broke person living in a war torn country with no food, water and electricity
cause women aim at least 3 steps up on the attractiveness scale. men that are on their level aren't interesting to them.
They think they deserve a man who is out of their league.
I'm glad I've never seriously tried dating apps. Real life isn't perfect, but it's better and less lonely and self abusive.
cuz hypergamy is women’s nature. A girl that’s a 5 or 6 wants a guy that’s an 8. Women act like shit to guys that are at their same level.
Dating apps are tough for everyone because they are primarily nothing more than money-making scams.
Welcome to modern dating in 2023. Women want the top 20% and won't accept the average anymore. a lot of women think they deserve a high value man without offering the high value men much
Because they WANT rich, tall, good-looking guys.
Because only trash men are on dating apps
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