Pffft no. "Bad boys" are romantacized as bad in public but are actially romantic and sweet while confident, but in reality, they are just assholes and jerks that women mistake for confidence, then get pissed saying "why are guys like this? I can never find a good man"... i honestly see it way too often. Keep an eye out for red flags and question whether or not they guy is actually confident, or just an asshole, take a moment to get to know the guy, ranther than jumping right on into the flirting
We eventually want to settle down but the desire for variety never really goes away. But we eventually crave a stable and consistent relationship and consistent companionship. Honestly if you can give your guy that and be a little fun you should not have an issue with a "bad boy" being faithful lol
Oh yh. I was looking for a guy with the same fun naughty edge as me. So far we seem to match. Having had several BJs in very risky places lol. And other such adventures šš
Oh yea, you will have no issues keeping your bad boy entertained and stimulated. The biggest thing that causes us bad boys to try new oysters is lack of stimulation, fun and good creative sex/pleasure. You sound like you have a good "Head" on your shoulder for that though š
Not long. Couple weeks. And so far so good. He wants to fast forward our relationship way too fast! I'm trying to slow him down lol. And be cautious. But so far I can't complain how he's treating me, buying me gifts and treating me like a priority.
Bad boys will only ever " settle down " as such when for whatever reason they are no longer able to pull off the " bad " attitude routine. And that does happen with age , but different age for each BB.
On question update. No the person you describe will not change and it's too late , he will end up in jail throughout his life , mainly relatively minor stuff , I've known people like him.
Some will, most won't. It's part of the style to not want to settle down, to sleep with as many women as possible. But, if you want someone with edge, there's plenty of men who look scary but are giant sweethearts! Just gotta look for em
I definitely do, but I've fucked up my life so bad w multiple partners (over 200) I don't know if I'll ever be able to be in a normal functioning relationship.
@SixFootSexy of course! Some of those women were absolute angels. I guess one positive of a high count would be it's easier to tell who would be more trustworthy. If anything, I am the problem now. That's not to say I would cheat, but a guy or a girl with a lot of experience, is going to be hard to keep pleased for years and years with only one person.
I've observed many different levels of bad in my lifetime. Some boys are bad to the bone, and some grow weary of it completely, but it seems that most want to remain a little bit bad. I think it gives guys a sense of rebel satisfaction to do bad things periodically.
Usually the bad boy type never really change. If they did they would no longer be bad boys. They stay that way more often than not until they die. Not say it's impossible for them to change but it's usually improbable.
I know someone who considered himself as a "bad boy". And, according to my judgement, he was 😂 But now he has a girlfriend of 2 years and they're doing great. He is loyal and dedicated to his current relationship. He is even thinking of marrying her, so yes I'd say "bad boys" can settle down eventually. But you cannot expect them to change overnight. Something like this takes time and only happens when the person is willing to change.
Bad boys changing? and wanting to settle down so they can treat woman right? Come on, seriously Come on, stop lying to yourself, stop hoping for a hope that doesn't exist.
Save yourself the heartache and let the bad boy go. Itās always messy and wastes so much of your time all for the hopes that youāll make him change. You wonāt.
Most of the time they stay bad and it's small percentage that they will change to treat their women right which means, most the time women that go out with them have to survive and have to be strong to deal with that bad boy mentality.
if they're a bad boy, turns out they grew up in a bad family that thought them acting like that was okay. they'll never change their ways. behavior is very hard to change when an adult.
Yes but one on a short leash if you understand what I mean. Let him prove to you that heĀ“s really changed and that heĀ“s ready for a relationship. Think about what would convince you that heĀ“s changed and let him invest something to get you because talk is cheap if he can promise you what you want to hear and get you through words heĀ“ll never do what he promised. If heĀ“s really changed his actions will tell you that.
Yup, I had a roommate and knew he was a dick 30 seconds after meeting him. Sure enough, new girl x3 a week at minimum. The odd part was his confidence was so clearly fake and his ego was painfully inflated, didnāt seem to matter though- he was faking it till he made it.
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Pffft no. "Bad boys" are romantacized as bad in public but are actially romantic and sweet while confident, but in reality, they are just assholes and jerks that women mistake for confidence, then get pissed saying "why are guys like this? I can never find a good man"... i honestly see it way too often. Keep an eye out for red flags and question whether or not they guy is actually confident, or just an asshole, take a moment to get to know the guy, ranther than jumping right on into the flirting
A person that is bad doesn't wake up one day and say today I will be good, as it doesn't work that way.
People hardly change from bad to good so if he's bad while young he will be also bad when he gets older and treat women just like he did in his youth.
We eventually want to settle down but the desire for variety never really goes away. But we eventually crave a stable and consistent relationship and consistent companionship. Honestly if you can give your guy that and be a little fun you should not have an issue with a "bad boy" being faithful lol
Oh yh. I was looking for a guy with the same fun naughty edge as me. So far we seem to match. Having had several BJs in very risky places lol. And other such adventures šš
Oh yea, you will have no issues keeping your bad boy entertained and stimulated. The biggest thing that causes us bad boys to try new oysters is lack of stimulation, fun and good creative sex/pleasure. You sound like you have a good "Head" on your shoulder for that though š
Are you looking to have an open relationship or just you and him?
We both just want us. Not ope
Gotcha, thats better in my opinion. How long you guys been dating?
Not long. Couple weeks. And so far so good. He wants to fast forward our relationship way too fast! I'm trying to slow him down lol. And be cautious. But so far I can't complain how he's treating me, buying me gifts and treating me like a priority.
Bad boys will only ever " settle down " as such when for whatever reason they are no longer able to pull off the " bad " attitude routine.
And that does happen with age , but different age for each BB.
On question update.
No the person you describe will not change and it's too late , he will end up in jail throughout his life , mainly relatively minor stuff , I've known people like him.
A bad boy will almost always end up being a bad father and a bad husband.
I wouldn't cluster all bad boys into one box.
Some will, most won't. It's part of the style to not want to settle down, to sleep with as many women as possible. But, if you want someone with edge, there's plenty of men who look scary but are giant sweethearts! Just gotta look for em
I struggle to imagine someone in their, say, 50s, still being a bAd BoY lol. Not entirely sure what you mean by bad boy, though...
With that being said, I wouldn't take my chances.
A bad boy can change I seen it in some friends but don't plan on it. Most don't.
I definitely do, but I've fucked up my life so bad w multiple partners (over 200) I don't know if I'll ever be able to be in a normal functioning relationship.
Thank you for your honest answer and perspective.
Do you trust women at all, now that you've put up such a high body count?
@SixFootSexy of course! Some of those women were absolute angels. I guess one positive of a high count would be it's easier to tell who would be more trustworthy. If anything, I am the problem now. That's not to say I would cheat, but a guy or a girl with a lot of experience, is going to be hard to keep pleased for years and years with only one person.
Your honesty and accountability is at least commendable.
Do you think you have a sex addiction?
You might want to check out this personality test. I'm thinking you will score high on some of these.
Sensation Seeking Scale: How Do You Rank? ā
@AmandaYVR I usually test high on these... But yeah it's possible. I'll take the test.
I've observed many different levels of bad in my lifetime. Some boys are bad to the bone, and some grow weary of it completely, but it seems that most want to remain a little bit bad. I think it gives guys a sense of rebel satisfaction to do bad things periodically.
Usually the bad boy type never really change. If they did they would no longer be bad boys. They stay that way more often than not until they die. Not say it's impossible for them to change but it's usually improbable.
I know someone who considered himself as a "bad boy". And, according to my judgement, he was 😂 But now he has a girlfriend of 2 years and they're doing great. He is loyal and dedicated to his current relationship. He is even thinking of marrying her, so yes I'd say "bad boys" can settle down eventually. But you cannot expect them to change overnight. Something like this takes time and only happens when the person is willing to change.
Remember itās a two way street. Itās women who enable bad boys.
If women want to do that then go right ahead. But this wistful isnāt going to change anything.
Bad boys changing? and wanting to settle down so they can treat woman right? Come on, seriously Come on, stop lying to yourself, stop hoping for a hope that doesn't exist.
Save yourself the heartache and let the bad boy go. Itās always messy and wastes so much of your time all for the hopes that youāll make him change. You wonāt.
Most of the time they stay bad and it's small percentage that they will change to treat their women right which means, most the time women that go out with them have to survive and have to be strong to deal with that bad boy mentality.
if they're a bad boy, turns out they grew up in a bad family that thought them acting like that was okay. they'll never change their ways. behavior is very hard to change when an adult.
They might settle down at some point but they decide if and when they do. It´s not like there is a behavior that makes a guy want to settle down.
That's true of course. So if he was doing bad boy things 20 years ago and not now does that mean he deserves a chance or not?
Yes but one on a short leash if you understand what I mean. Let him prove to you that heĀ“s really changed and that heĀ“s ready for a relationship. Think about what would convince you that heĀ“s changed and let him invest something to get you because talk is cheap if he can promise you what you want to hear and get you through words heĀ“ll never do what he promised. If heĀ“s really changed his actions will tell you that.
Fuck boys never have a reason to settle down. These f boys may get married but they will always seek additional women.
Men can spot fuck boys a mile away so we have a hard time understanding and sympathizing with women who can't.
Yup, I had a roommate and knew he was a dick 30 seconds after meeting him. Sure enough, new girl x3 a week at minimum. The odd part was his confidence was so clearly fake and his ego was painfully inflated, didnāt seem to matter though- he was faking it till he made it.
@DarkWinterNights This is just further evidence women regularly make poor choices in men.