What should I do if he's confused between choosing me or his family? His family kept question about choosing me or them and he is unable to choose?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Who is unable to take stand for what he love, that person doesn't deserve love according to me.

In this situation you don't have anything to do. It's his time to prove how much he is strong how much he is committed to you.

You directly strongly in clear words ask him is he going to choose you or not. And demand for a clear answer from him. Give him time limit for his answer. After that whatever he says in clear words accept that answer.

Remember who can't be confident enough, who can't protect his own happiness he won't be able to protect you even but he will put you to get sacrificed on demand of others. Let's say their parents only. So accept it whatever it it. This is time of the result. Stay strong face it and see what happens.

[Opinion Owner]

I do agree with older and wiser that he isn't confused but he doesn't want to choose.

[Opinion Owner]

But because of this he can't keep you on verge of edge all the time. We have to have to make a choice a lot many times in our lives whenever is needed. That's life. And all choices have it's good and bad we must be ready to face it deal with it.

[IslaTheWitch]

being in the relationship doesn't mean he has to abandon his family ffs...

[OlderAndWiser]

Why must he choose between you or his family? You have given us NO information about the situation; if you want some meaningful responses, you need to tell us some details in an update.

[Asker]

They are his parents and against his love on me

[OlderAndWiser]

If he is a man, he will warn his parents that he makes his own choices and that, if they try to interfere, they will be the ones to lose the challenge, so they need to back down.

If he is a boy, he will probably succumb to the pressure from his parents. . . and that means that he was probably not ready for a mature and committed relationship.

[OlderAndWiser]

by the way, he isn't confused. He understands the situation. He just doesn't want to make the choice.

[Sameone]

Why he would choose his family
It's his own life

And you don't have to do anything

[Asker]

They are his parents

[Sameone]

And...
If he at age 20 or more
Is not going to listen to them

[laly520]

if he is confused then it isn't worth it