Why do men act like women are awful and break their hearts when men are the ones being cruel and hurting women?

[Anonymous]

I always see guys in real life and online complaining about how women are flighty and mean, don’t appreciate their grand gestures and love etc. The thing is man’s love is entirely random you could be right in front of them, they don’t care, you could even be pretty and kind and they’ll snub you.

It’s randomized who they’re attracted to and they always want to land on some beautiful bitch, then they wonder why they get devalued because they didn’t even bother to look at chapter just how they feel. Now they’re jaded and hate all women or don’t want to date when when choose based on how they feel and didn’t even look at good women.

I on the other hand even as a decently attractive woman don’t have the luxury of just randomly picking. I pick through the options I’m given and I’ll choose the one with the best character way they treat me and people around me. Women choose my character over looks but men lie about their character. The thing is any woman knows men will front will kindness for months before truly showing you who they are and mistreating you. It’s near impossible to pick good men because they good men have the problem of falling for bad women and because they are good they ignore everyone for that one women then complain after. The men available only ever want to trick you.

Why do men act like they get the short end of the stick when they’re the ones doing it to themselves?

[Unit1]

You presume we have all the power in dating, don't you?

Explain this.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/sD4FYD-Mgqw

Nah, save it.

I'm not going to find myself amidst another gender war. I'm interested in nice and sweet girls.

[SolitarySolace]

Can’t trust the supposed nice and sweet girls dude. I was falsely accused by a supposed nice and sweet girl. Don’t let it fool you. They’re the worst type

[Unit1]

@SolitarySolace So you've encountered an imposter. Big deal.

[SolitarySolace]

If there is one there are more. Don’t be a fool

[Unit1]

@SolitarySolace Duh.

[SolitarySolace]

You speak as if women are incapable of being hurtful and cruel to men

[Asker]

They can be, I never said they can’t. I said women choose the bitches that hurt them because they only value the randomized love in their heard instead of looking at character. If you read you’ll see I said the bitches they choose devalue them and treat them cruelly making men unjustly jaded which wouldn’t happen if men were more logically about the women they pick.

[Asker]

men choose*

[SolitarySolace]

Do you think it is reasonable or unreasonable for men to fear women?

[Asker]

I think it’s unreasonable because women are physically weaker. Emotionally any person can choose who they engage with. If you fear women because you choose bad women to engage with that fear is unreasonable. If you have some deep rooted mother trauma that’s justified.

[SolitarySolace]

So men shouldn't fear the fact that women can falsely accuse them of rape? Men shouldn't fear the fact that his wife can wake up one day and think "I don't love him anymore I'll get a divorce and take his money and resources and leave him in the gutter he's a man and I'm a weak woman he'll be fine."

[Asker]

Those things happen because women choose bitches. Random women don’t acuse random men of rape, that’s insanely rare. You see it online so much because it barely happened and gives people something to freak out about. The same rate if not more is the amount women are randomly raped by random men but men say that’s fake. I can name several women who have been randomly attracted by men. Police documented accounts. I can name 0 men who are genuinely fearful of randomly being accused of rape or every having that happen to them. The marriage point is stupid and goes back to what I’m saying about men choosing bitches. Don’t marry a bitch it’s not that hard if men actually looked at character. Any marriage when a man actually chose a good woman has prospered. Men can rape women and can kill women at any moment and that happens in abusive relationships all the time but women know to not choose assholes to the best of their prior knowledge. The female equivalent to that is the random leaving, choose better women. Critically think about who you want to spend you life with

[SolitarySolace]

Do you really think there are good women in the United States? 🤣 Why do you think there's a movement of men seeking women to marry outside of the country? If majorirt of women were good women they wouldn't be doing that now would they? You're a woman I bet you consider yourself to be a good woman. Yet I highly doubt you are. You generalize all men by the saying the majority of them rape women. If you can generalize about men why can't men generalize about women? Double standards aren't attractive. The laws that are put in place to protect women from men demonize good men. Threaten the future of good men. It's no wonder women can't find good men to date. They're avoiding women because good men know what women are capable of. Good men fear women but can't say that without being ridiculed, laughed at etc

[Asker]

notice how i never said the majority of men and I only said the same amount of which men are accused of rape and recorded in gyms. Do you think every woman is an influencer waiting to get you for veiws on tiktok, you're not special. Do you really consider yourself a good man? I’m not going to continue to argue with someone who’s going to change what I say to further his shit argument. Women aren’t so evil they’re all out to get you, go outside.

[SolitarySolace]

You ever been falsely accused and served an ex parte PPO? Cuz I have. 🤷🏻‍♂️ You ever been laughed at for having gone through that and thought that was wrong and that it shouldn’t be so easy for women to just do that and get away with it? Do you even know what it’s like to be told you can’t possibly be targeted by the weaker sex in any way after going through exactly that? At least women are actually believed more so than not. Try being a man.

[Asker]

Who made it that way? Who made society and structured that way? Men. Don’t blame women for the structure men built. Women have never in history and still don’t have the power to control the mass perception of men. Men made the standard of them being macho, men made it so that women were consider the weaker sex, men made the laws, and they were the ones who preyed on women with them. You made your bed now lie in it.

[SolitarySolace]

You’re right. Men did that but not because they wanted to have power over women. They did it to help women. And women took that and turned it into Something else. Women abuse that help given to them by men to hurt men. And unfortunately those men who gave it to women won’t get rid of it. They just keep giving women things that they say will help equal everything out when in reality women are abusing it to the maximum extent they can. And somehow that’s acceptable?

[Asker]

sure men did it to help women… no use in continuing this conversation when you don’t have a basic grasp on history. men had laws protecting marital beating/rape, women not having their own money, or owning homes, or owning themselves to make things better :)

[SolitarySolace]

And that somehow makes it ok for women to falsely accuse men or abuse and rape? That somehow makes it ok for women to take a man she claims to loves’ money and resources? That somehow makes it ok for women to decide to boot the man out of the home and become a single mother flying on government and child support while he has to live in the gutter with risk of jail time if he can’t pay up? Women may have been oppressed in the past but that does not give them the right to oppress men today and get away with it much less receive defense from everyone for doing so

[LazerBean]

Wow, it's not ever day that I get to see the resident male whiner agrue with a female counterpart.

Better call two this time

[boggboss]

Ikr this is gold

[boggboss]

At the end if the day with genders are capable of being shitty and playing the other

[Asker]

yeah but men want to be the ones to get jaded over it. I just want a kind hearted man

[boggboss]

No men don't the men that complain do the same as the women that complain at the end of the day both genders deal with different issues but both have issues its not easy fir either to find happiness

[jahaims]

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