Do you have to be a 10/10 for a lot of men to want you?

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Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

If you believe that you have swallowed some propaganda lie. Most men want someone attractive 6/10 or up and someone not fat (decent fit shape).

There are endless attractive women. Endless. They are everywhere. Guys find hoards of women attractive. Not very many are long term relationship or marriage material because so many are sleazy, promiscuous, too entitled, not loyal, too much hypergamy, expect to not be traditional but expect traditional gender role treatment from the man, they want to deny their nature given biology role of moms to be workers. They cuss, get drunk, lie, don't want to have families or at least not until they've been run through by 30 men and their hoe phase is over and they are no longer worthy of being a wife.

Women are plenty attractive physically. (many). It is being a beautiful person on the inside most modern, western women lack.

Get off the dating apps!!!

Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

Absolutely, 100%, you do not have to be a 10. In fact, I think a 10 is an abstract anomaly. I think the only “10s” most men have ever seen is in a magazine and they probably had some help from photoshop, makeup artists, perfect lighting and angles, and took 500 images to select five to publish. Most men understand models and such are projections of a fantasy, not reality.

Be nice, be feminine, be caring, be healthy, be fit, and treat the man you’re interested with respect and show real interest in them and you’ll find plenty. Be personable and when going out just dress in a way that shows you have a sense of style and care about your appearance.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think so. Women who are  that  beautiful like Malena are rare, anyway. They are usually famous for their beauty and you don't see them in real life. Most of my guy friends have told me they prefer pretty but attainable women over the supermodels. They like down-to-earth girls who are attractive but not amazingly so.  Some of them have even told me that they think girls who look like supermodels are high maintenance, vain and untrustworthy. So they might dream about sleeping with them, but they wouldn't date them long-term.  But then again, every guy is different. The ridiculously hot guys would probably go for girls like that. Water seeks its own level.

LadyKitty · Accepted Answer

Looks do attract but personality is what gets someone to stay. Also on the looks thing everyone has different tastes.

ohsheeT · Answer

Not even all you have to do is be real be honest have a good heart be confident be smart and smile just be you don't try to be anybody else beauty comes from the inside first and shows on the outside

Pinay_ako · Answer

Not really. Cheap items attract a lot of customers.

Avcfhcic · Answer

Not even close.
My most recent crush was a girl who I would've rated maybe a 4/10 and I had no interest at all in her. But after talking with her for a while and getting to know her, I started seeing her as a 10, after a couple of months.
Personality really does keep a guy interested, regardless of how you look

Anonymous · Answer

No, of course not.

"Why are some average looking women wanted more than other average looking women?"

And to this ^ question, the answer is personality, attitudes and values. There is a persistent (and false) stereotype that men only care about looks. There ARE some men who only care about looks, but they are not the men you should care about. Good men... and there are plenty of us despite the nonsense you read online... are looking for a good woman to marry. Just focus on those men and you'll be fine.

Haraklus · Answer

I've never even seen a 10/10. But I've seen a lot of women be pursued by numerous men. A lot of it is just putting yourself out there. Really, if you're a reasonably attractive woman (ie, not fat, no major genetic abnormalities, etc), you can have about a dozen pursuers by the end of the day by creating a Tinder profile.

Rangers · Answer

No, you can be a 5/10 in looks and guys will swarm you.  Although, don't forget that there's a whole world out there, if you look outside the country, you will have expanded your search tremendously

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah if you want lots to surround you, you kind of need to be 8 and above. If you are under that there will still be guys who give you attention but it won't be as much.

Anonymous · Answer

No, not even close, but according to dating apps, women foolishly believe that only men who are 6 feet tall, 6 inches long and have at least 6 figures in the bank with a 6 figure salary are worthy of them.

Thank God most women aren't so delusional that they believe that they deserve the top 1% of men.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Absolutely not. Plus a ten to you might be a two to him

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Not at all honestly some men are desperate af

Foreveralonevirgin · Answer

Aren't you looking to date a man, and not all men? So focus on guys who are interested in what you are interested in—your religion, your philosophy, or whatever.

MittParekh15 · Answer

Not at times just a smile is sufficient Overall men do judge a girl by its personality  Not by just looks. So think from overall perspective.

Nikki1989 · Answer

These childish ratings are meaningless. A 10 to one person might be a 5 to someone else.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Nope. I prefer the shy geeky girls better than the supermodel type. I think they have better personalities and hobbies. When a guy finds a girl that loves Monty Python it's like an angel was sent just for you.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Are you kidding? Any woman is 5 or better will always have a (initial) dating advantage over her male equivalent

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Depends. Friends with benefits and short term relationships and I've even seen fat people with other fat lovers. Etc etc. some people mate with whomever is interested and legal age into them

lightbulb27 · Answer

not at all, you have to have good social skills to work through the confusing process of of pair bonding.

jshm2 · Answer

No one is 10/10 You can be beautiful to one person, and ugly to another. Hence "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

genericname85 · Answer

i've known undesirable girls who litterally had guys waiting in line to get to fuck her. so i guess no.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Nope. As long as you're average, men will want you.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I mean if you want 100,000 men to desire you probably. If you would rather be attractive to 100 men then it’s better to be healthy and passionate about many things

PebblezfromDetroit · Answer

Nope, not at all!! Its a combination of things that make individuals attractive to one other! A person could be a 10/10 in the face, but dumb as a rock mentally, thatll reduce their overall score to maybe a 5. If that make any sense...

Anonymous · Answer

You guys responding need to realise that when most women ask questions about men, they are really asking questions about Chad.

tzdc21 · Answer

No. No you don't at all. And that's a MASSIVE privilege to have.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely NOT.

I know lots of of women are are. 6-7 and a lot of guys want them. Their amazing personality is the shining star.

They are decent enough to look at to Guage interest then her personality takes over.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Not at all. Men actually prefer to marry average looking women. The "10's" are nothing but headaches.

Pohjolan · Answer

Nope. Especially in this day and age as a lot of your competition are not taking care of themselves.

Iron_Man · Answer

No you don’t but you better be nice and loyal

jeremy_09 · Answer

Most girls I have dated are 6-8. I have dated some 5s and I have dated some 10s.

handsomelad70 · Answer

No. Plenty of plain women are desired by men, though perhaps not this man.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Not to want to bang you but to keep you probably.

Anonymous · Answer

I find you attractive and you can kick butt, I’d be like damn she’s a bad ass…is that good enough asker?

elaphe · Answer

No, a cute girl with a great personality is preferable to a 'stunner' who is an empty shell.

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

dolemite58 · Answer

Not at all, even below average looking girls still get tons of attention for just existing.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. Just be easy to talk to, share some common interests with them and you'll be fine

minzgeprahl · Answer

No if you are blonde you can even get away with an ugly face and no wits

Anonymous · Answer

4-5 are with relationships, fwbs with multiple men nowadays

Anonymous · Answer

Neah you just have ro ve smart and dress sexy

Paris13 · Answer

lol No, Maybe an Eight? lolxxoo

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Anything past a 6 will fo

4ngelic · Answer

no being average is enough to get you that

JacobJordan · Answer

Nope men aren't shallow.

The_Sexpert · Answer

Absolutely no, that's gross overthinking

magiusX26 · Answer

are you reffering to beauty/looks?

rienna888 · Answer

Yes it’s sad but we’re all animals

Unit1 · Answer

No, you can get by being just 6/10

Night_Descends · Answer

No, of course not.

OtterMan68 · Answer

nope, and beauty is subjective

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope, well not for me anyways...

Strong_Warrior · Answer

Yes. You should be submissive also

ballweevil · Answer

no, it is just that simple

Luckycharms12 · Answer

No such thing as perfect. So no we don't

David94358 · Answer

Nope

laly520 · Answer

no obv

Anonymous · Answer

All men? Yes!! Some men? No!

jahaims · Answer

Nope

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Pretty much

euniestars · Answer

nooo

Anonymous · Answer

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