Do you have to be a 10/10 for a lot of men to want you?

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Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

If you believe that you have swallowed some propaganda lie. Most men want someone attractive 6/10 or up and someone not fat (decent fit shape).

There are endless attractive women. Endless. They are everywhere. Guys find hoards of women attractive. Not very many are long term relationship or marriage material because so many are sleazy, promiscuous, too entitled, not loyal, too much hypergamy, expect to not be traditional but expect traditional gender role treatment from the man, they want to deny their nature given biology role of moms to be workers. They cuss, get drunk, lie, don't want to have families or at least not until they've been run through by 30 men and their hoe phase is over and they are no longer worthy of being a wife.

Women are plenty attractive physically. (many). It is being a beautiful person on the inside most modern, western women lack.

Get off the dating apps!!!

Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

Absolutely, 100%, you do not have to be a 10. In fact, I think a 10 is an abstract anomaly. I think the only “10s” most men have ever seen is in a magazine and they probably had some help from photoshop, makeup artists, perfect lighting and angles, and took 500 images to select five to publish. Most men understand models and such are projections of a fantasy, not reality.

Be nice, be feminine, be caring, be healthy, be fit, and treat the man you’re interested with respect and show real interest in them and you’ll find plenty. Be personable and when going out just dress in a way that shows you have a sense of style and care about your appearance.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think so. Women who are  that  beautiful like Malena are rare, anyway. They are usually famous for their beauty and you don't see them in real life. Most of my guy friends have told me they prefer pretty but attainable women over the supermodels. They like down-to-earth girls who are attractive but not amazingly so.  Some of them have even told me that they think girls who look like supermodels are high maintenance, vain and untrustworthy. So they might dream about sleeping with them, but they wouldn't date them long-term.  But then again, every guy is different. The ridiculously hot guys would probably go for girls like that. Water seeks its own level.

LadyKitty · Accepted Answer

Looks do attract but personality is what gets someone to stay. Also on the looks thing everyone has different tastes.

ohsheeT · Answer

Not even all you have to do is be real be honest have a good heart be confident be smart and smile just be you don't try to be anybody else beauty comes from the inside first and shows on the outside

Pinay_ako · Answer

Not really. Cheap items attract a lot of customers.

Avcfhcic · Answer

Not even close.
My most recent crush was a girl who I would've rated maybe a 4/10 and I had no interest at all in her. But after talking with her for a while and getting to know her, I started seeing her as a 10, after a couple of months.
Personality really does keep a guy interested, regardless of how you look

Anonymous · Answer

No, of course not.

"Why are some average looking women wanted more than other average looking women?"

And to this ^ question, the answer is personality, attitudes and values. There is a persistent (and false) stereotype that men only care about looks. There ARE some men who only care about looks, but they are not the men you should care about. Good men... and there are plenty of us despite the nonsense you read online... are looking for a good woman to marry. Just focus on those men and you'll be fine.

Haraklus · Answer

I've never even seen a 10/10. But I've seen a lot of women be pursued by numerous men. A lot of it is just putting yourself out there. Really, if you're a reasonably attractive woman (ie, not fat, no major genetic abnormalities, etc), you can have about a dozen pursuers by the end of the day by creating a Tinder profile.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah if you want lots to surround you, you kind of need to be 8 and above. If you are under that there will still be guys who give you attention but it won't be as much.

Anonymous · Answer

No, not even close, but according to dating apps, women foolishly believe that only men who are 6 feet tall, 6 inches long and have at least 6 figures in the bank with a 6 figure salary are worthy of them.

Thank God most women aren't so delusional that they believe that they deserve the top 1% of men.

Rangers · Answer

No, you can be a 5/10 in looks and guys will swarm you.  Although, don't forget that there's a whole world out there, if you look outside the country, you will have expanded your search tremendously

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Absolutely not. Plus a ten to you might be a two to him

MittParekh15 · Answer

Not at times just a smile is sufficient Overall men do judge a girl by its personality  Not by just looks. So think from overall perspective.

Foreveralonevirgin · Answer

Aren't you looking to date a man, and not all men? So focus on guys who are interested in what you are interested in—your religion, your philosophy, or whatever.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Are you kidding? Any woman is 5 or better will always have a (initial) dating advantage over her male equivalent

lightbulb27 · Answer

not at all, you have to have good social skills to work through the confusing process of of pair bonding.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Nope. I prefer the shy geeky girls better than the supermodel type. I think they have better personalities and hobbies. When a guy finds a girl that loves Monty Python it's like an angel was sent just for you.

jshm2 · Answer

No one is 10/10 You can be beautiful to one person, and ugly to another. Hence "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Not at all honestly some men are desperate af

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Depends. Friends with benefits and short term relationships and I've even seen fat people with other fat lovers. Etc etc. some people mate with whomever is interested and legal age into them

tzdc21 · Answer

No. No you don't at all. And that's a MASSIVE privilege to have.

Nikki1989 · Answer

These childish ratings are meaningless. A 10 to one person might be a 5 to someone else.

genericname85 · Answer

i've known undesirable girls who litterally had guys waiting in line to get to fuck her. so i guess no.

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