I think I’m losing my relationship?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy started dating earlier this year but been talking late last year. He’s so good to me, and I wouldn’t think in a million years to cheat on him. He talks of getting married, meeting my parents and these wife duties. But lately I’ve been thinking that there’s more to life than just a relationship with him. I’ve been thinking about other people, and casually dating. I’m tore because I’d never think I’d be this way in my relationship. Is this something that’ll past?

[Anonymous]

It depends upon what kind person you are and what are your goals? Are you some kind of person with high pasion? Is your goal to achieve something big like being at high position and high power? If this is such then you can go for that because then ofcourse there is more meaning for your life. If not such then it's just stage and after some age when you would be around 30 these all would feel tiering for you and you would feel more to get settled and have faimly. But that time it would be tough for you to get right man because all right men and best men would be already taken you would left with rejected one. Now you say he is honest and loving so he is good catch. If you will lose him it would be tough to get another one. Life doesn't always give second chance to everyone.

Also rather than simply telling that "I want my life to be more meaningful than simply relationship" you should be exact on what does the true meaningful life means to you? Is it doing job? Is it doing fun? How long you could do that? Can you do it forever? What if you couldn't get another right men ever in your life again? Would your life still would be meaningful staying single or without having family?

See through all these questions, try to get the exact answer. Then decide whatever you feel right to do. You are free to take whatever decision you want to take as this is your life you have to live.

[Asker]

This is a really good point. The questions you’ve ask I’ll really consider. Thank you so much

[Opinion Owner]

Sure also life can be meaningful being in relationship. If our partners support us, and if it is all acceptable to him what we want from our lives. So it's better choice if we could accommodate both in one same time.

[bobalife]

Sounds like you’re having commitment problems or self-sabotaging? Maybe it’s going too fast for you and you want you guys to slow down abit since you’re not at where he’s at yet? It also sounds like you wanna add more meaning in your life while being in a relationship which is normal because your life does not revolve around just a partner but your individuality and your goals in life. But if you truly wanna date others… it’s not fair for him, it’s better you break up first and let him meet someone who’s deserving of him.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You can do one of two things.

1) You can have this conversation with him. I guess it will ultimately lead to you breaking up. But then you are free to see what you think you're missing..
I swear to you though. It is a cesspit of horrible people out there.. People can be vile, but if you need to witness it for yourself to really appreciate what you have? Then so be it.

OR? You can take my word for it and thank your lucky stars you are with a someone who can make you very happy, if you accept my advice is true of course!

Ultimately it's up to you, and I accept we all have to make our own mistakes in life.. Just remember though. You have been warned!

[DreamCrescent]

yep. what he said right there

[lorenzomichael]

Hold up honey. You said you would never think about cheating on him, and then you go on to say that you've been thinking about other people and going out and dating. Sounds like you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. Maybe you should tell him that you've been thinking about other people and going out. And you don't want to continue with a relationship with anybody right now. let him go be honest don't be in denial. Because it's not like you're far from marriage.

[HighValue]

If you do that, you will likely never find another person as compatible for your whole life. It is common. Women get bored with good things and like drama in their life. It is a big contributor why the MAJORITY of women in the USA will be single the rest of their lives. The majority of women have terrible morals. by the way, posting provocative/revealing pictures online for attention and talking about potential relationships and sexual activities with other guys online IS cheating too if you do that.

And once you have a past of casual sex, don't be surprised if no good quality men will ever want you again. Many women hate it when men have any standards and don't accept low quality immoral people for a mate, but that is how it is and should be.

[sawno]

Its something you will have to get trough, because are you really going to give up someone who loves you that much for a bit of a thrill? You are in the second half of your 20's and you already found a nice partner from the sounds of it. If you give that up for some thrill you may no longer be able to get as nice of a guy when your ready to settle again. So choose wisely.

[Drew-1990]

I'm no expert but from everything I ever heard from people it can be normal to have doubts especially since he is speaking of marriage and stuff. Honest truth I'm shocked that after a year parents hasn't been met yet, that seems like a long time to me. And on casual dating if you are thinking about with sex as well I strongly advise against it. The more people you sleep with the higher chance of you getting a divorce in your future if you want to be married one day.

[BCRanger10]

What "more to life" can there be than what he's talking about? How could "other people and casually dating" possibly be considered "more to life" than what he is offering and envisioning with you?

[strateguy632]

if he is good to you then do not miss your opportunity, "a bird in the hand" is better.

[laly520]

u dont really love him or prepared to commit to him if u r still capable to doubt n consider casual dating

u need to end it n move on

[IslaTheWitch]

I would say something is missing in this relationship. Try to find out and fix it. If it won't work... life too short for staying in unsatisfying relationship

[spartan55]

In other words you aren't really into him. Just break up now, because you know the second some guy who may or may not be better gives you attention you will dump him like a hot potato

[sheikalana]

You're still young is normal to want to experience other things. If you think you might hurt his feelings let him go before it's too late.

[KrakenAttackin]

It's your female hypergamy and Instagram cocktail working to destroy your life. Enjoy!

[midnightmoon05]

Fear of commitment?

[In_Trance]

No. You need to end it now.