Is my relationship going to end?

[Anonymous]

My (18) girlfriend (16) and I have been dating since high school, she’s a junior, she’s just the youngest in her grade, I already graduated recently, we ended up spending some time at my place and things got frisky, we had sex and of course in the heat of the moment forgot protection, she thinks she’s pregnant after we did it, I bought her birth control but her anxiety is telling her she’s pregnant and making her distance herself from me, she says she feels uncomfortable around me now, and she won’t talk to me or anything, I send her messages every now and then just supporting her (ex. Hope you’re doing amazing, please make sure to eat something today my love, etc.) am I screwed? Is this relationship over? We’ve been together for a year now and I really love her, she’s an amazing person and she used to feel the same, but now I’m not sure, I’m scared of losing her.

[Guy13]

The first thing that needs to happen is to get a pregnancy test so that everyone can be at ease knowing the result. Do not abort if pregnant because either way... You have a Deathdate or Birthdate. The memory will never go away.

[ThomasDavid1989]

What's age of consent in your state. If it's 16, you're fine. If it's 17, it was stat. rape

[Asker]

It’s 16 here

[ThomasDavid1989]

OK, you got away with murder here, but, barely

[Asker]

Thanks for letting me know? I guess?

[Changiis07]

Give her some space she might just need so time to think and it scared her

[Asker]

Okay…… I’ll do that….. I’m just afraid I hurt her….. that was never my goal…..

[Changiis07]

It doesn't seem that way she sounds scared if anything

[Asker]

That wasn’t my intention….. I feel horrible

[Changiis07]

No you can't control how she feels maybe being her first time she panicked

[Asker]

She wasn’t pregnant and she broke up with me earlier today, I let it go, nothing I can do except deal with this, gonna have to tough out the emotions, she said one day she hopes to get back together but I doubt it’ll happen

[Changiis07]

Then I would stop reaching out completely. I'm sorry this happened to you, it's tough having feeling for someone and for them just to let it go like nothing but focus on healing and if she's for you she will be later down the road

[driven159]

first off have her take a test to see if she is pregnant then go from there

[Asker]

That’s what I’m doing right now, still nothing from her, got one text last night around 10 saying sorry and that was it