Causally relationship going no where do you think we can make it work?

Anonymous
So I’m now in a causal relationship with my girlfriend gina we dated for years and lovely her deeply but We have two big issues.
1. I Fallen in love deeply for someone else while in a poly relationship that’s now gone. I can’t get over my feels my ex Skyler since I feel if I didn’t date them both at the same time I would have 100% married skyler and even had kids with her. She was pretty had 95% of everything I wanted in a girl. She was very kind hearted , could cook, wants kids was very mother and cared about my healthy. I won’t list anything sexually
I dated them both with the other consent it failed since they hated each other and skyler family was super religious and control her life.


2. My current partner gina no longer 100% wants kids anymore. She says she may give me one kid but their is a 50%-50% chance she may hate our child. This worries me a lot and I feel I could end up a single parent or raising a child with someone who hates our own kid.

Do you think it’s worth to keep taken things slow with gina and helping things Change? Gina has ptsd that related&tigger by kids sometimes and doesn’t feel seeing a therapist will help. I also feel if my ex come back I would 100%. Wanna try with her agin since she 100% wants kid and if I become single I plan on keeping it that way while working on me.
Causally relationship going no where do you think we can make it work?
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