Can things still work out between us?

[Anonymous]

I had a huge fight with this guy after the first date.. We ended things and even unfollowed each other on Instagram.. I realized that I got really attached to him so I apologized even though I was not at fault, because I wanted to save the relationship.. He didn't say a work, read my message and left me on read.. This happened for a long time.. Recently he updated a status where he got a certificate of appreciation from his company, I congratulated him and he did reply this time, he said thank you.. Is there any chance things will sort out between us?

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Nah let it be. May I ask what the fight was about? Was it about political stuff?

[Asker]

He said that he wanted to eat me up, I got a little uncomfortable because it was the first date of my life and I have no experience with men.. When I told him that I got uncomfortable, he wanted to end things with me, said that he feels there's a huge void between us.. I got angry and said certain things to him that I shouldn't have

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Hm seems to me that you're in fact very different minded.
To me he seems like a more straightforward guy, saying what he thinks, but also doesn't kbow the limit. Not sure if he meant it jokingly as a compliment or if he was just really horny and was hoping for quick sex.
You seem like a more shy/conservative/sensitive, quickly offended person (dont know you that well, only guessing).
If getting back together on a second try there could be two possibilities: 1. He now knows he has to be more sensitive/holding back. 2. Another fight break out

[Asker]

You're absolutely right, he's very straight forward.. Whatever he thinks is always on his mouth whereas I am very shy and conservative, I have my boundaries.. I fail to understand that it's the same person who said that he's falling for me and thinking about me every now and then.. He even said that it's never happened to him before despite being in multiple relationships.. When he liked me so much, how could he end everything like that and is now continuously uploading status on whatsApp and triggering me by doing so

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I mean first dates are actually meet ups to see if your personalities match or not. And in your case its troublesome. He seems like really into you. You can try out a relationship but I bet it won't last long and it will be with lots of yelling and drama.

[Asker]

I know, we both are not compatible at all but there's a lot of spark between us.. I don't know about him but I am very much into him, I would want to give this a second chance, but I don't know how to approach him

[In_Trance]

smh... it was one date... move on.

[Anonymous]

No, he doesn't care.