I like him, He likes me...but nothing is happening between us?

[WolffyLove]

The coworker that I liked for months finally confessed to me that he liked me back. I no longer have a boyfriend (though we recently broke up) and he knows I like him and wants to be with him. He said that his feelings weren't the same as they were when he started liking me but he didn't say he didn't have any feelings left. He said he cared about me and wanted to see me happy. The reason why he didn't confess sooner was because I was with my boyfriend and his feelings faded a bit, so since it was his last day at work, he wanted to tell me since he had recently found out that I liked him.

I'm single, he's single...he confessed, I confessed. His feelings aren't really the same but they could come back right? I really don't know. If I wasn't with my boyfriend, things would have been different back then but now that factor is out of my life (other reasons of course, not just because of this dude). He still wants to hang out even though he knows I'm like head over heels for him...

Could his feelings really fade that fast? Is he waiting until the right time to ask me out? I really don't know what the deal is..

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He asked me out to hang out :) or to go on a date as some would say, hopefully it goes well. Wish me luck <3

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There are plans for our relationship in the future so hopefully we grow from there. Only thing is he doesn't know I'm waiting for him.

[Mellontikos]

So far it does sound like he's waiting for a good time to ask you out.

You can speed it up. Next time you see him, just ask him straight out "why haven't you asked me out already? I want to say yes!"

The only way he could say no to that is if he really wasn't interested in you, and that would be strange to me.

[WolffyLove]

I agree. He didn't say he didn't have feelings for me, just said that the feelings faded and that was before I told him I broke up with my boyfriend. He's a shy guy and it took me to tell him that the rumors of me liking him were true before he confessed so we'll see. Thank you.

[Mellontikos]

Yeah just be straight with him. We guys are scared sh*tless because even if a girl shows signs of liking us, we have no idea if it's because she likes us, or if she's just nice to everybody. But if a girl straight out told me she finds me cute and likes me, I'd be way more open to say yes.

[Mellontikos]

Awesome! Good luck!

Make sure you tell him that you like him. We guys need to hear that from the girl, otherwise we're scared to make any moves. This is crucial. If you tell him you like him he'll open up to you much easier.