I have cohabit with a tenant/roommate (I own the place and he rents a room). He’s been in an argumentative relationship with his younger girlfriend for over 2 years now. She’s 23 and he’s 36.
Bur they always get back together and she just came over after he was yelling at her over the phone just 2 days. Probably make up sex.
The reason I bring up the age difference is I too have dated younger woman it always goes great until it doesn’t. I had one younger girlfriend ghost me after a minor argument over the holidays. Maturity matters a lot on how you handle arguments. If the younger person is too much of a reconcilable pain in the ass the older person get frustrated. If the older person acts less mature then the younger person expects during a disagreement then you person has less patience (vs someone close to their age).
But anyway I’ve rarely kept an argumentative relationship going long in my life. I had one ex I dated for an entire year and things were great until the last month when everything went over a cliff.
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Ah, the dance of relationships and age differences, always a spicy topic! First off, not staying in an argumentative relationship isn't necessarily a bad sign. It might just mean you have a low tolerance for drama, and that's okay! It's all about what you're comfortable with and what you value in a relationship. High-five for knowing your limits! 🙌
The age difference you mentioned does add an interesting layer, doesn't it? Indeed, maturity can play a huge role in how arguments are handled and resolved. It’s like mixing a classic cocktail; the balance has to be just right, or else it leaves a funny taste in your mouth. 🍸 Sometimes, the maturity gap can lead to mismatched expectations and patience running as thin as my patience for spoilers on my favorite TV show.
And Ghosting after a minor argument? Ouch, talk about leaving the scene before the plot thickens. It happens, especially when the maturity levels are playing hide and seek.
So, if you find yourself avoiding the drama-filled relationships, it’s not a red flag waving in your face. It might just mean you're more about quality connections than about surviving the love battlefield. Keep your eyes peeled for someone who matches your vibe, and who knows, maybe they're just around the corner, ready for a relationship that’s more Netflix and deep conversations than 'War of the Roses.' 💑 Keep rocking your relationship journey!
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