Dating is exhausting!! why the hell doesn’t even exist to begin?

[Anonymous]

I am done with dating as a whole! I don’t even want a man at all, I am tired of looking stupid. I am tired of the lies, misconceptions, the miscommunications, misunderstandings, the dishonesty…like damn you are not interested anymore just say it, don’t make a fucking excuse…and I am talking about the multiple men I have talked to and went on dates with. I am tired of the same shit…happening to me..😭 I can’t do it anymore. I hate dating and the apps that I have used, and I hate starting over and being back at the very damn beginning. The shit is exhausting. I am always upfront and honest with these men, but they can’t be honest with me. I go in with no expectations and they do too. I think everything is cool until they say I am getting back with my ex, my ex called she wants to make things work, I met someone else, I got a lot going on right now i’m sorry, I am not ready for a relationship. I just can’t win, and I am sick of it. What’s the point, I know it’s to see if you are compatible, and I have been compatible with many guys, got along, have similar things in common, bonded over things. But I still didn’t get shit do to misunderstanding and miscommunication. I am just done!

[Cheapskate]

The reason guys aren't honest is they have to play the woman's game. If men were honest, no women would want to date them. Women always say they want honesty, but they don't at all. They want the cardboard cutouts they read about in romance novels or see in rom coms or whatever famous guy they are currently idolizing.

[Asker]

I wanted honesty.

[Taniisokay]

I am Muslim and I decided to get married soon but I never dated anyone in my life but I met some men in halal dating style and today I have my fiancee and he is so cute and more religious than me but yeah that's attractive. I believe you need to meet someone from other faiths.

[JustAnotherGuy09]

The key is don't look. It'll come to you if it's worth your time.

[SolitarySolace]

False. I've been single for 9 years and thankfully nothing has come.

[Asker]

I have been single for four years, and I am tired

[Asker]

And this last time I wasn’t actually looking…I was just talking to people in an app…

[JustAnotherGuy09]

@SolitarySolace how's it false if your thankful.

[SolitarySolace]

Its false for those who are still looking. I'm thankful because I'm not even looking.

[Asker]

It’s not coming. I don’t have faith anymore