Do girls only answer DMs from guys that they are interested in?

[Anonymous]

[Abbycado]

No, I at least give a response if I get one.

[Asker]

Are you speaking for yourself or most women?

[Abbycado]

Do you see the word “I”?

[Metalbarbie]

🧐🧐

[Asker]

I understand. If a guy flirted with you, would you still respond?

[Abbycado]

Yes.

[Asker]

Okay you're a rare one. I respect that. It seems like in today's time a lot of girls will just ignore you.

[Abbycado]

Just courtesy to respond, even if not going anywhere.

[Asker]

Absolutely. Although you are not entitled to a response it is the right thing to do. I think some girls just protect themselves because guys can be very creepy and thirsty in their DMs.

[Abbycado]

But that’s why you just give a polite response that not interested and move along.

If they annoy, then they are the problem. I did my part, right?

[Asker]

Definitely. I know some girls just like the validation of having a guy repeatedly text them. It gives them an ego boost when they ignore them. If they were annoyed by it they would just block them.

[Abbycado]

No, I’m just honest. Like right now, I’m going off to college in the fall. So, guys that ask me out, I just tell them I don’t want to start something that is going to end when I leave, which is true.

[Asker]

There aren't many women like you.

[Abbycado]

That’s too bad.

[Asker]

It is what it is.

[Abbycado]

Probably not going to change.

[Asker]

It won't but I understand. Most guys can't take rejection well so women are scared to be direct because of what the guy may do.

[Abbycado]

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Not always. She might give you a one word response. Thereby letting you know you can keep messaging her if you like. But it's largely one sided from here on.

[spicythunder]

hahah yes, ı think men are like that too.

[Asker]

So if I dm a girl and it is nothing flirty and she responds, I have a shot?

[spicythunder]

yes, i think there is

[Asker]

What if I already know but we haven't spoken in years?

[spicythunder]

You can see by writing and trying

[Asker]

She responded but it didn't lead to nothing

[RebelinSteel]

I think that’s how it works.

[Asker]

So if she answered and i wasn't being flirty I have a shot?

[RebelinSteel]

Everyone has a shot,

[Metalbarbie]

Everyone? Everyone? Bummer my chances are low then 😊

[Asker]

Everyone might be a stretch. Why do you think that?

[RebelinSteel]

@Metalbarbie I’m on good behaviour tonight, so being positive for people. It’s be nice to a blue anon day. Normal service will resume shortly

[RebelinSteel]

@ anon
Everyone always has a shot, how many get past the first hurdle and get a reply, is a different matter, then those that get to chatting but blow it by becoming overly thirsty or plain creepy.
At the start everyone has a shot.

[Metalbarbie]

@rebelinsteel I knew this solar eclipse will have an effect on people!

[RebelinSteel]

@Metalbarbie I’m lucky I escaped the entire craziness of the eclipse