Of course I can, and I have done so before. Dating, that is. I've never been married. But it's fortunate that I can do so, because I don't trust anyone at all. People are human, and humans make mistakes. Humans will let you down. Humans will behave unpredictably from time to time. But what matters to me is that I have an expectation that is well-founded and consistent with the evidence I have perceived that the person in question will take reasonable steps to do what I would believe to be the right thing in important situations. This can be evaluated, e. g., by examining the known history of the person and analyzing the decisions he or she has made in the past. If the person has behaved in an honorable manner in the past, it is reasonable to anticipate that the trend may continue. But as I said, I never trust someone. People who have never done anything wrong in the past can slip up in the most disastrous way. But if I love her enough, I will likely have learned enough about her that I can put myself in her shoes, at least to some extent, and try to think about why she did what she did. And sometimes mistakes happen that don't necessarily need to be treated with unnecessary harshness. At the same time, actions that demonstrate a lack of respect, love, kindness, or compassion can be indicative that there is something wrong with the relationship and that it may be better to adjust things or break off the relationship entirely.
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Not a good idea, trust is part of a relationship
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I personally wouldn't. Trust is important in any relationship, even if it's not a romantic relationship.
If there's no trust, you'll be always suspicious and that is unhealthy. Not to mention that it causes a lot of stress.
Nope I will not date or married a person that I couldn't not trust and will find someone else instead.
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Interesting inquiry, "prosperity". My experiences with women who were either married or "attached" were the most exciting sexual relationships I have ever had, simply because of the uncertainty involved.
Would I date or marry 'her" ... Of course, and I did, but was not prepared emotionally for the crushing time when she left me for another man.
To answer your question more directly, the lure of the woman who may have doubtful, commitment thoughts and a wondering eye, for other men, is all part of the dating experience for me. I just took the chance for the excitement of being with a woman like that, and let the "chips fall where they may"
"If she leaves me for another, so be it. It was wonderfully exciting while it lasted, and I would take the risk and do it again" Just be prepared if she leaves you.
Unlike you are a ruthless individual who is after their money or assets, I don't see the point. Isn't Love supposed to me all about you finding all those elements of a person to be positive including trusting them? I would say a definite NO!
Never. Trust is essential to a strong marriage. Dating... well thats why we date. To find out if you can trust that person.
No. If I don't trust them when I was dating v them I would never marry them. Obviously if yoir having trust issue, you should look more into it
Just because you can doesn't mean you should..
So yes, but it's a dumb idea. Like really dumb. A relationship without trust is not a relationship.Nope. I can’t. Trust us foundational requirement number one.
You certainly can, but it would be a terrible decision.
Well you can..
But I wouldn't reccomend it , that's for sure , not a good potential outcome.Nope. Those if seen people do it. It’s always a mistake.
No. The untrustworthy only hold space as low-level friends, if trust is the only issue. For me.
I certainly wouldn't I have more brains than to do that!
@MsProsperity Trust is overrated and I dislike the overuse of the word and the emphasis put on it by pushy people. 😐😃😆
I can't, some claim they can but it doesn't really work out when they do
You can do anything. But that wouldn't be a healthy choice
No, trust is one of the most basic parts of a successful relationship.
How is this even a question?
no... trust is the basis for a relationship
nope no that is the bedrock of every relationship is truast
Nope you break my trust in the worst possible way IT stays broken.
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