If you have had 6 dates with someone, do you say “We’re seeing” or “We’re dating”?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I personally like “Seeing” more.

[Finchie40]

I jwould say we’re dating and getting to know each other if I am really interested in her especially being on date 6 with her , if I wasn’t really that interested in her I wouldn’t be on date 6 with her period , unless I just considered her a friend. and we possibly might have a connection , than I would just say we are just seeing each other and not really sure if her and I are going to continue seeing each other. So it sounds like you aren’t really too sure about this guy and sounds like you are keeping your options opened

[OlderAndWiser]

For me, "We are dating. . ." means we are dating exclusively. That may happen after the second or third date, or maybe after the second or third month of dating, but it usually happens around the time that most couples begin having a sexual relationship.

[JamesRandiDebates]

That would be right after the first coffee meeting.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Not even before the cups are presented even lol ☕☕ times move fast ahahahaha ⏩

[DishLady]

I tend not to be the one to label anything first. I like slow steady progress and when the moment to label is appropriate then either the guy suggests or we have a cozy chat and make a decision.

[Rosexøxø]

Yeah, too soon to commit to being exclusive. Seeing sounds better in my opinion, too.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, It’s still too early.

[KrakenAttackin]

To me, six dates means exclusive.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Some lol don't even wait lol 😆🤣

[AviatorTom]

6 dates is at least "dating", possibly "in a relationship".

But what really does a label mean? Just enjoy.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No, I don’t care nor want any labels to be honest, I like spending time with him, that’s all for now. I am not actively looking for a relationship, I enjoy spending time with him and open to see where it goes, but I am not in hurry not super interested to label our connection.

[KrakenAttackin]

@lafemmefatale_1. This is an ultra -abundance mindset.

[itsclearlynicholas]

@AviatorTom oh it's definitely something tom at least 🫢🫢🫢👀😋😝

[Avicenna]

After 6 dates, she would be my girlfriend.

[RebelinSteel]

I need an emotional connection, I may not get that by 6 dates, so it’s likely a bit early to be talking about dating. Going on dates yes but not steady

[Joshydavid25]

That's dating right there.. If you went on 6 dates, it means you liked them enough to keep going for what I would presume some months at that point, unless you guys went on dates twice a week, even still at that point you should know if you wannabe with them or not.. Might as well make exclusive then..

[RedInnocent69]

Seeing sounds better than dating in my opinion.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, I think so too. Dating sounds too serious, I like seeing more.

[Nikki1989]

Dating. I see people every day of the week.

[Mr_twoface]

If you like the person to exclude others from having an opportunity with you, say We're seeing. If you are still free as a bird and open to dating others, We're dating.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am still free as a bird.

[Mr_twoface]

Just as I thought ;)

[LiamJHayden]

I do not call it "dating" in that sense unless we've discussed and agreed to be exclusive.

[molonski2]

If you are asking the question I dont think you are ready - dating , at this point , see what happens.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why do you think I am not ready?

I enjoy spending time with him, I just don’t want to take him too seriously as of yet.

I am open to see where it goes, but I am not in hurry.

[molonski2]

Because of Line 2

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We are both in the process of figuring out, how compatible we are. We are at the same page.

[molonski2]

Good that means you are " Dating " ..
You are not yet an " item " . So , I stick with my original answer.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, that’s right, I thought dating was more serious than seeing.

[molonski2]

Hmm opinion I guess , Id take " seeing " as exclusive , but that's just my view.

[midnightmoon05]

Are you both okay to see other people?

if yes, then it’s not serious and just hanging out.
if no… then it’s dating exclusively.

[laly520]

depends on the person

some will keep on 'seeing' that person after 1k dates n others would start calling it dating maybe after only few dates

depends on what they r looking for

[SotiCoto]

Neither. Having actual dates is such an American thing to do. It is culturally alien to a British individual of my age.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What do you British people do then?

[itsclearlynicholas]

We're banging (and that's not offensive if it's a true fact) 👿😊😊🫢👀😋😋😋😝

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Did you not read the word “Date”?

[itsclearlynicholas]

@lafemmefatale_1 sighs - smiley - "we're dating" - coughs, coughs 🤧

[itsclearlynicholas]

Better?

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hello? Femme? Lol 😆

[KrakenAttackin]

Either is acceptable. To me, I don't know how you folks see more than one person at a time.

[OddBeMe]

Why’s it matter? Ask him. That’s the only person who would actually care.

[DJB72]

"Seeing" has a good feeling to it.

[slatyb]

That depends on whether it's exclusive.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think it’s too early to discuss exclusivity, we’ve just been meeting for a month. I’m not sure I am ready for exclusivity as of now.

[slatyb]

That's good. "We've had a few dates" is accurate. "We're dating" sounds a bit more committed.

[handsomelad70]

The latter.(I would, anyway.)

[Anonymous]

Dating, seeing implies a relationship.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I did not know, thought it was the opposite

[DrPepper12]

Seeing

[eagle1951]

nope

[itsclearlynicholas]

The eagle has landed lol 🦅 on YouTube video i was enjoying of an eagle the other month