Guy told me this after we had a great first kiss on our date. What does he mean?

[Anonymous]

Kissed this guy I’m dating on our third date. It took me a while to do that because I wasn’t comfortable to kiss in public on earlier dates. He knows about this. We had a great first kiss initiated by me. I told him later that I was thinking about it and he said that he liked it too. Then he wrote this. What does he mean? Especially the reference to right person, is he implying he isn’t seriously into dating me?

“I hope you are not feeling under pressure. I am kind of aware of how important are these steps, so I dont wanna feel you taken advantage, or doing something you dont wanna, feel prepared, or waiting for the right time, person, etc. lol”

[Anonymous]

To answer your question, it sounds like he’s saying that he wants to be respectful of your wishes and take things slow. However I just want to mention that these are things you should try to become comfortable asking him. Always use your voice, because if you can’t talk about the small things the bigger ones will never get addressed.

[Asker]

Thanks! Sorry I didn’t get the below you said. Can you please explain so I can understand your advise. Do you mean that I discuss with him about any pressures I may be feeling? Sorry again for my ineptness!

“However I just want to mention that these are things you should try to become comfortable asking him”

[Opinion Owner]

No need to apologize! I’m basically saying that this was a question you should ask him, mainly because it isn’t a big deal. You just want some clarification. There was a reason you didn’t want to ask him, but if you can’t talk about this, how will you be able to talk about bigger issues that could happen in the future, you know?

[Asker]

I understood now. Thank you for explaining. He and I talk freely about lot of things. With this, I just wanted to be sure he wasn’t hinting of not continuing to see each other so thought to better ask on gag to clear my insecurity.
You did make a great point and I will make sure I have a healthy communication with him where I and he can freely talk what’s on our mind. Thank you again :)