Is cheating a deal breaker for you?

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CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely yes it's a deal breaker! By definition, if they cheat on you, they broke the deal! Cheater's cheat, it's why they’re called cheaters, and once they cheat, they can never be trusted again! Trust is the foundation upon which any relationship is built. Without trust, there cannot be love, and without love you're not IN a relationship, you’re in a "situationship". I would be devastated if my boyfriend (now fiancé) cheated on me. It would destroy me to realize his actions ended the relationship. But I would pack my bags and leave immediately! I will not degrade myself, and stay with someone who does not care about me enough to simply not have sex with someone else! I have way too much self respect for that!

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I was cheated on in every single relationship that I had. Always gave them a second chance. Most of them never cheated again, only one did it again. I’ve also cheated in the past, I confessed then never re-offended - this is why I always give cheaters a second.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

People who tolerate cheating having a pathological weakness in their self-confidence. I am a faithful man, I deserve a faithful woman, and I can attract and keep a faithful woman. Why should I settle for a cheater who I can never trust?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

it does end the trust in a relationship

worldscolide · Answer

Always. Cheaters never loved the person they cheated on in the first place, Cheaters are not capable of a simple human thing called Empathy, They exist as monsters, without a soul, and are unworthy of love, or respect. Honestly they should have the ability to have children removed from them.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. I learned my lesson on that a long time ago.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

Yes. Zero Tolerance. Period. However: I consider cheating to be kissing, making out, any kind of sex to be cheating. I do not consider porn, flirting, online flirting to be cheating.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Yes. You cheat and I leave. You'll have to be very convincing for a second chance. Cheating=Unfaithful--->I leave, the end.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

cheating breaks trust... there is no health relationship without trust... it's one way ticket

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Yes, it is. I expect the same treatment in return.

Angie03 · Answer

Yea don’t even date even cheater who have cheated in the past.

Pete671 · Answer

Depends on the relationship, if loyalty is expected then def yes, but I find the idea of my girl cheating on me with guys with big dicks a big turn on, if it's just about sex, the lady would need to be emotionally 100% loyal,

Nikki1989 · Answer

Cheating implies it is something going on behind my back, so yes, that would be a dealbreaker.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

Why would I stay with someone who breaks my trust?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes! Cheating, stealing, lying repeatedly, pretty much anything that causes me to distrust her would build an ocean between us.

Dargil · Answer

Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. One strike and you're out.

Booklover_90 · Answer

Yes. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on  me.

Miristheiss · Answer

Of course. Only a fool would actually stay with a cheater.

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

Yes wouldn’t take a cheater back no matter what he does to make it up to me

justarandomperson_55 · Answer

How can't "cheating" be a deal-breaker? Like he or she broke the trust and didn't respect you, what more of a reason do you want to get a breakup?

electromagnetic · Answer

Without a doubt. You cheat, you’re out.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Of course it is. It is one strike and you are out rule

TerrySilver · Answer

Definetely a deal breaker. U can never come back from having an image of them with another guy out of your head.

EmmaMary · Answer

@coachtanthony  Totally 100%.

JennieF · Answer

Not necessarily. We have kids. I want to keep the family intact.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

Cheating is just a social construct of the patriarchy

Theraingoddess · Answer

Coz Im not one I'm many and i want many.

handsomelad70 · Answer

D**N SKIPPY !!!

DextroShade · Answer

Yes 100% it is.

impalabill77 · Answer

I was cheated on twice. So for me it was.

moneymagnet24 · Answer

Hell no cheating is deal maker for me...

msc545 · Answer

100% yes, every time.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Yes. Without exception.

avery58 · Answer

Hell yeah

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes , it’s over

LaurenM1997 · Answer

Absolutely yes get me out

pinconon · Answer

definitely a dealbreaker

Dongie · Answer

Yup. And then some.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Insta-Dump.

CaitlinSims25 · Answer

yep going like ended cheating again

DishLady · Answer

Yeah.

Yannae · Answer

A breaker.

Ilovepeace67 · Answer

Yes it is!

12karen · Answer

Definitely

Libarena · Answer

Pretty much.

Wiredone · Answer

Yeah it is

Kathy1111 · Answer

yes it is

MatureMan40 · Answer

Yes really

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