If you're single, do you go out alone?

Question

If your friends were busy, would you just hit the pub or the club alone?

RebelinSteel · Accepted Answer

Yeah of course, I go to my local on my own, they may be people I know there and chat with them, I do into town on my own at times, grab food n drink alone. I’ve been in London on my own and I’m out to pubs and food etc, I just chat to people and they chat back. I also do it when travelling alone, for example in Germany, Norway, Netherlands, France etc I’ve done a number of trips alone, some is biking between areas and you grab a drink at various pubs. It’s that are stare at a hotel room walls etc or drink in the hotel bar ££££.
I really do not see any problem with it, you actually meet some great people doing it, I even met a girlfriend doing that while doing a battles field bike trip.

JonCobretti · Accepted Answer

No going to a pub or club and drinking alone makes you look lonely and desperate  So in case my buddies are busy, I'd just buy from a liquor store and drink at home with a movie

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Yeah. It comes from a greater philosophy that (1) if other people are going to find things to love and appreciate about you, it’s healthy to identify and appreciate those things in yourself; (2) do the things you enjoy and get to know yourself so you’re better suited for a partner down the road.

Minky17 · Accepted Answer

I go out all the time bc I don't have friends. I stopped having friends in college when I moved away and I definitely do NOT hang out with co-workers.

But I don't go to clubs either. I do go to concerts, the movies, and out for lunch/dinner by myself all the time.

GoodManDave · Answer

I will go do SOME things alone. Like I used to love going to the movies. That was something I'd usually try to do alone if a friend couldn't come.

I'll do restaurants sometimes alone, though a lot of times, it seems like they're pushing me to get in, get out; not that I loiter or anything. It just seems rushed.

Shopping, obviously.

But eh, going to a singles event alone (Not going with friends for moral support or just to laugh off some failure, it just isn't the same), or by myself at a new church or something, then no. It feels weird to just show up unannounced, not knowing anyone... I'm pretty uncomfortable with that (especially greeting the person next to me... makes my anxiety go way up).

Caroline91 · Answer

Not a pub or club but other place’s absolutely.

serious · Answer

Yes I have always been single and I always go out solo (alone). However, I only go to malls, theatres or parks or a metro (train) tour otherwise it will be mostly for groceries.

Other than that I don't go to other places.

noemiii · Answer

I pretty much do everything alone, by choice. I am a fast walker and don’t like to be idle for too long, even at events I always move with a purpose and that makes going with people who like to take their time just looking at shit difficult.

HawkPerception · Answer

I go on hikes alone, walks to the park alone, kick a soccer ball against the wall alone, and occasionally bars alone.

I have one good friend and I don't rely on his company all the time. I'm comfortable with my own company.

sage2021 · Answer

When I would go out alone I used to enjoy going to watch stand up comedians. They had shows at the Holiday Inn twice a night. They were usually packed, so I didn't feel all alone.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I do everything alone. Movies, restaurants, bars, comedy clubs, road trips, sightseeing, hikes, bicycle rides, beach trips, et cetera, all by my lonesome.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, I could never do that. I'd rather stay home in comfy clothes, do my projects, watch some tv or read or something.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I did in college sometimes but to be fair everybody hit up the bars and clubs on the weekends

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

Comon conversation between me and all my best friends. Best friend: "Hey you want to hit up that Irish bar on 13 and grab some Yuenglings?" Me: "who all is going" best friend: "just me and you" me: " No, I hate those guys"

Valdemort · Answer

I don't like going out, but I'll go alone if I feel like going at all, sure.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, I know a lot of people and I find always some kind of company.

jahaims · Answer

No point to go to a pub or club. Quality women don't hangout there and it's cheaper to drink at home.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I don't. I have before and it went well but I still don't usually. It is something I want to get more comfortable with for sure though

genericname85 · Answer

sometimes. but i also got friends to go out with xD

Unit1 · Answer

I have done that and I will do so in the future

Staximus · Answer

If one of my friends is bartending I might go to that bar alone. I might sit down to eat by myself on a lunch break or when driving far. I generally don't go sit down to eat in restaurants, go to bars, live music shows, etc by myself.

Lonewolf1974 · Answer

I prefer to go out alone if I meet someone great if not that's fine too because if you're single you avoid another headache

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Everything alone. even sexy nude play time.. 😇

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

There are other forms of entertainment I would have settled on.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Yeah, I’ve taken myself out. And not necessarily to pick up.

Angie03 · Answer

I go out with friends. I need unless on vacation then I meet people at bars/clubs or cafes.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i am single and rich... my future is secured oh yeah i go alone but not to bars just at the mall

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I don't recommend it though. A wingman & wingwoman will have your back. Invite a friend or family member. Or you might get arrested.

MaaikeVee · Answer

I'm not single anymore 🙂🙏 But this is what I did at times when I was single.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

Yeah sure. Why not?

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

I'm not a club or bar guy, but I will go to places by myself, yes.

NathanDavis · Answer

I was the busy one... haha

DrPepper12 · Answer

Sure why not?

HurremSultan · Answer

Yes all the time

jessica27 · Answer

yes but to places i been to before not new places

Anonymous · Answer

I have no choice. It really sucks.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I will go to movies, dinner, whatever solo

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Yes I do

DreamLife7 · Answer

I would

MatureMan40 · Answer

Of course.

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