He said he hopes I get the help I need just because I was drinking?

[Lalalove11]

I rarely party and maybe have less than a bottle of wine per week. However today an online friend said wow addiction is no joke I hope you get the help you need love.

I thought he was joking because to be honest it's ridiculous. I never parry and I drink maybe once a week or less. I felt his comments were accusatory. I did tell him I was shaking due to drinking, because I don't drink that much. Its common for me. All he said was why do you still do It then? And the only people I know who shake from drinking are people who drink daily.

[Anonymous]

He sounds weak on multiple levels I drink a bottle of whiskey most months and plenty more besides, I not an alcoholic

[Lalalove11]

I mean I could go on... The other day we were watching a movie online with another friend and he got offended and left abruptly because my friend said she was focused on something. He said he thought we were preoccupied.. I was just sitting silently watching the show. It was hilarious... This is just ridiculous. I know what alcoholism looks like. My mom was one... It's just crazy and I almost feel he was accusing me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

So does he think your an alcoholic

[Lalalove11]

I asked did he think I was an addict he said
'I don't know 🤷🏻‍♂️ haha
From what I've seen, one drink per week is considered unhealthy'

Which I think is ridiculous when I drink once a week or less. I have grown up with alcoholics however so I'm aware what that looks like. I felt unfairly accused and judged. It was also dismissive he abruptly changed the subject.

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's crazy who cares what he thinks live you life and if you want a glass of wine 🍷 knock yourself out. You only live once!

[Lalalove11]

Yep he is crazy but it's also accusatory. I've grown up with alcoholics and he knows this so it's hurtful to be accused of that when I'm genuinely not an addict. He's acting like nothing is wrong. This is the same guy I talked about before who calls me cute all the time. But I think he has some anger issues tbh