Have you ever unknowingly been the other woman?

[Anonymous]

I was dating this guy for solid 4 months, until I found out that he has a long-term girlfriend. Scammer, got played like an idiot. I fell in love with him... I feel horrible, never had this happen to me before.

[petitedollbabee]

Yes, and I’m ashamed to say that it didn’t stop me from chasing him for a while after I found out. I’d been in love with him for a year at that point, and we’d been fooling around. I then found out he had a girlfriend of 4 years that lived a few hours away. I overheard him one night talking to her on the phone, telling her that he loves her and can’t wait to see her again. It crushed me but I didn’t stop trying to win him over for months after that. In the end, he made it clear that he wouldn’t leave his girlfriend for me, and I got tired of the mind games. So I sat in his backyard one day and drank a bottle of wine, cried for hours, and by the next day I didn’t feel anything for him anymore.

[elizamichale1]

Yea once... I found out after like 7 months or so... n the way I found out... i was once over at his apartment and in morning my ex went out to attend some work and asked me to stay there as he would come back before afternoon.. so I decided to stay naked for him just so we can pick up from where we left in morning n he liked the idea... but before afternoon I heard the door knock so I ran to greet him naked at the door but it was not my ex but a stranger... he looked so shocked to see me then he angrily asked who I was n how was i there... when I said it was my boyfriend's place... he literally pushed me back inside... well after a lot of this n tht... this guy told me tht my ex has been in relationship with his sister for a while n they r supposed to marry... he showed me their pics together... so I just left immediately n never talked to him except to burst out

[ProbablyClueless]

The other man, in my case, but yes. It was a shock when I found out. He and I found out about each other at the same time.

[DannyUk2017]

Welcome to 2024...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️! And that's how the "bad apples" make the rest Good ones Look...🤦‍♂️

[7Phoenix7]

I've never been the other woman, no. I'm too observant for that lmao. And I'd know something is wrong early on, before getting too far into anything.

[Asker]

You obviously never met a psycopath then.

[7Phoenix7]

I've met plenty. Sorry about the guy you dated

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but as soon as the truth came out that he was married, I ended it. You can't believe a word men say to you.

[dustybiker2]

The men I dated had to put in effort to get around my male childhood friends. Never had to experience this.

[KrakenAttackin]

See the question I just posted. MOST of you ladies who are Chad chasers are a side piece. Get used to it.

[Angie03]

I found out the woman I was seeing has husband. He know about me. I knew nothing of him. When I found this out I dump her. I’m not a plan b.

[Anonymous]

I’m not an idiot, I would never do that to y’all girls, last thing I want is to get kicked in the balls by an angry girl 🤦🏻‍♂️

[CrabCakes11]

No. I haven’t had the misfortune

[RingOfFire]

No I can't say I ever have.

[DishLady]

Nope.

[djcrazy76]

NO!!