Does a good/bad first kiss make or break you wanting to see your first date again?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

It can make you have second thoughts if she doesn't know how to kiss.

But a first kiss is rarely face eating and tongue swapping.

For example, one of my most memorable first kisses was when I walked a woman to her door after our first date at a restaurant. We had gotten along great.

At her door, before we said goodbye, she turned and stepped close, looked up into my eyes, then put her hands on top of my shoulders, and rose up on her tip toes with her body touching mine. My hands went to her waist.
She gave me a tender, lingering kiss that made my head spin. There was something sensuous about her lips that told me that she knew how to kiss.

We continued to date and I soon found out just how sensual she was.

[godfatherfan]

I don't even try and kiss her on the first date. I don't see that as being ok. I also don't count the first anything against the person. First time sex is usually bad. However, if they are a bad kisser, then probably I won't continue once we get the the kissing stage.

[DishLady]

A bad first kiss could be accidental, however in most cases there’s a clear indication of the chemistry (missing or present) between the two people by the time they get around to the first kiss.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

If that spark gets lit up even more with an incredible first kiss, follow-up dates will be a must.

If a bad first kiss extinguishes that spark (if any), that doesn't mean it's a deal breaker.

[CaptainOverthink]

Like I'd say to most things..
It's more about your ability to listen, compromise and improve that says things about you. Whether you are bad at it in the beginning is not something I care about.
It's nice to improve together, makes the journey more impactful.

[HawkPerception]

I think sexual compatibility is important. However if they're a bad kisser, it's something that can be learned over time. I think the willingness to get better and desiring the same kind of physical & sexual activities is more important. My 2nd ex was a terrible kisser initially, but we ended up having 3 great years together.

[CrabCakes11]

No, that’s silly. People can adjust to how you kiss over time. I used to not like how my boyfriend kissed, but he adapted to my style and vice versa and now it’s great!

[ZackBan]

It's not an isolated instance but the entire escalation into physical romance definitely makes or breaks a first date

[KittyKatLady]

A good kiss might not mean anything, but a bad kiss i's DEFINITELY a breaker, lol

[Darkchild25]

I'd probably wanna work on it. Eventually telling them what I like and don't like or would prefer. I don't think that would be the only reason to not continue to date.

[curiousmandy]

It depends on the connection but it could definitely be a huge turn off for me

[bobby_bush_eater]

Makes legitimately no difference to me. Kissing and physical things can and will improve with time and connection, that's what's important

[TonyMetal___86]

Ofc not! A relationship is a lot more than a kiss, also with time, kisses will become better 😄

[paledreams]

A bad one, I'd not want to 🚭🚫

[Caramelpie]

Not at all. That’s silly in my opinion.

[Revolutioner_83]

No..