Is the first date kiss a make or break situation? If it's bad, is it a deal breaker for you?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

What really is the dealbreaker is the person I’m with I don’t really kiss on the first date that’s more reserved for someone special and I kinda want someone whose the same way. I want to feel exclusive and want her to feel the same way.

A first date is really just getting to know somebody it’s nothing that serious. Then you see if you want to go on a second one or maybe you’re just not clicking very well

[SueShe]

I don't date but if I was forced to have to date, then there would never be such an intimate thing as a kiss for the first 5 dates or so.

If a person would impose himself and want a kiss, then it would be the end of that date right there and then because it would be indicative that he would want more than just a kiss in the long run and that is not something I would agree with.

To me, that is an unacceptable and toxic behavior.

[Dhdhdhgdhdjuyd]

Thats what i was thinking, i was like wtf people really be going on dates and do thid typa shit when you first meet?

[Simslover92]

Only if the kiss is really bad. Like I hate kissing in the first place so if you're a bad kisser, that just solidifies it for me that we aren't going to work out because I need someone who isn't going to slobber all over me. I'm not saying I'm the best kisser in the world but I need someone who can take the lead in kissing. I don't want to have to lead the kissing.

[HawkPerception]

A first kiss isn't necessarily a dealbreaker as someone can always improve the way they kiss with communication and practice. But how good a first kiss is does tend to correlate to how good the sexual compatibility might be naturally, which can add to satisfaction or frustration when it comes to physical intimacy.

[V_Injector]

I skipped that part and grab women by the pussy.

[Account]

If it is bad, it is bad. I ain't teaching him how to kiss. I have other ways to waste my time.

[Anonymous]

kisses improve over time. you can tell each other what you like. but eventually you'll find your rythm. its up to you what to do. bad kiss doesn't mean no future. especially if one or both of you have little to no experience. do you like the guy? do you want a second date? thats the important question.

[Anonymous]

I went on a date for the first time in 8 years. Soon realised the guy wanted to kiss me, but I never kissed anyone and didn't know what to do.
Once we were by ourselves I told him I would kiss him, but didn't know how cause I never had before.
He smiled, grabbed my face, and guided me through it.
He was gentle about it and made me feel less bad about myself. Wouldn't have done it with anyone else, but I knew I would like this guy, so no regrets.

[natured]

It's best to not PLAN on things, and let everything go naturally, I would say it would be a dealbreaker if it's forced and out of context. But I don't think it's a dealbreaker if you both vibe and have your energy aligned

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

If there is a backstory that happened online, a bond, then okay. If not, I don't get the question, no one is kissing anyone after two hours spent? Unless 14yo and totally clueless. Unless this date is about casual sex.

[WhitneySnow]

Not a deal breaker but it might be a bad sign if it’s not good. But most kisses are good if the person really likes you and you like them.

[Nikki1989]

I would expect at least a kiss goodnight. Not getting one would be the real dealbreaker.

[art84]

I don't think it would be a deal breaker though I wouldn't kiss a girl on the first date. I wouldn't expect a girl to kiss me on the first date.

[SweetJoyGirl]

If a guy doesn’t know how to kiss…that kinda ruins everything…

[quickquesocheese]

No. First Date is for getting a vibe and seeing if you want to go further with things.

[SunnyGirly]

Not a dealbreaker but if we are having a good time and you don't kiss me I will go home sad but just hope for a kiss on the next date

[worldscolide]

Lady I don't even kiss on the first date, let alone anything else. I'd be bothered if she tried to kiss me.

[paledreams]

I'd say so lol 😆 if there even was a kiss 💋 or what if it was a peck or not even a peck - lol "keep your hands to yourself" 😁🤕

[Vanny20]

It has to be natural and not forced, and a kiss filled with passion and natural intimacy

[Anonymous]

Yes. If this is an issue with her that's a dealbreaker for me.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s what determines the continuation of the fun

[LiamJHayden]

I do not kiss on a first date.

[Walksbehindtherows]

This is all complete bullshittt

[Hotboy_booblover]

No. If she has nice boobs

[jahaims]

Nah.

[MILFVanessa]

ofcourse it is