Is no response to a text saying, "maybe we can grab coffee sometime," mean not interested?

[Anonymous]

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I'm a single mom, and the main reason I wouldn't respond immediately is if I was thinking about it, and not totally sure. I would typically respond within a few hours, and definitely within 24 hours. But I would never leave a guy hanging, and certainly not for a week. That seems unkind and thoughtless, even for a busy single mom. There's really no excuse, unless someone died. People have their phones with them constantly, and that's an important thing to respond to. I mean, all she has to do is text "Give me some time to think about that; I'll get back to you", if she can't address it right then.

So, to answer your question: Yes, it means "not interested". And she wasn't very tactful about it, either.

[Radiate143]

Yes and no.

Say i would like to grab coffee with you a "x" place at "" time and date.

So open ended and non comittal makes it sound like ypu are just being nice but aren't serious.

If I got that message, I would think you were just stringing me along.

She could also not be interested

[Radiate143]

At "x" time and date

[blueonblack22]

Friend of mine had a good saying about women who don’t respond: the silence is deafening.

95% chance you your correctly answered your own question. At best she’s just considering it but given she’s scared to just get coffee in a public place then tells you something about what she thinks of you It’s not like you asked her to come over and drop it or something.

When it comes to non-responders I got a two strike rule with women: two un-responded texts and your out. If you send a 3rd you will look desperate. Make sure to wait at least 48 hours to text her again (for the final attempt) Don’t text her the next day.

Sorry man.

[HawkPerception]

No response to ANYTHING is usually a sign of no interest. Plenty of fish in the sea bro. Move on... us guys take our shots and have to get used to rejection. Don't take it to heart.

[Account]

Yes, that is how I would interpret it.

[Anonymous]

No response is waiting without bombarding her with more text. If still no response, means no coffee, no anything. Guys and gals, you send a text, you wait for a response. Sending multiple text after the one you sent to coerce them to send just kisses people off. And looks needy and stalky.

[Opinion Owner]

Kisses = pisses

[LordMadara]

wow

women are really stupid when it comes to messenging

well. . .

i learnt their tricks and do it on them as always ,

if you see me online on this website
its simply bcoz im ghosting out a girl whos expecting me to return her text 😂😂😂

why do females complicate even the most mundane BS? 🤷🏽‍♂️

[LostSouls_]

Either not interested or wants something more than coffee

[Asker]

I only suggested coffee because she is a single mom and I want to get to know her. I know single moms don't have a lot of time and they don't play games so I'm trying to operate with good intentions

[LostSouls_]

How long has it been since you texted?

[Asker]

Embarrassed to say she has left me on read for like a week

[LostSouls_]

Ohhh

[LostSouls_]

No one’s that busy they can’t send a text back in that time. I’d say most likely not interested 😕

[Asker]

I agree.

[LostSouls_]

Not to worry. Happens to all of us unfortunately

[Asker]

Absolutely. I just wish people would be honest

[coxoabean]

Possibly, although maybe she's busy? Or she lost her phone?

[serious]

Yes of course it clearly says " Not interested"

[Sasquach]

Give her some time to respond and don't flood her inbox. If she doesn't respond by the day prior of the event, then you've been ghosted

[SotiCoto]

No response doesn't mean anything. Nothing can't mean something.

[AngryCarl]

Either not interested, or didn't read the text. I don't get texts but I imagine they're similar to emails, which I don't read.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yep, I'd certainly say so.

[Anonymous]

Does this really need explaining?

[noohair]

No response means piss off.

[impalabill77]

Yes. I would say it does.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Basically yea

[jahaims]

Duh.