Would it be creepier if the woman is older and dating a younger man than vice versa?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm talking about that big age gap relationship here like 10 years. If the man is older, the man is pretty much heated by society because its creepy despite them both being legal. But don't women mature faster than men they say? So that means, would it be creepier if the woman is the older one?

[hahahmm]

Not to me. Over a certain age it really doesn't matter and the age difference hardly matters. It's mainly women who worry about this stuff because it reminds them that every year there's a new crop of younger competition. Guys don't think like that.

[Yannae]

Makes no difference to me, it's just as weird.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think of those relationships the same way I think of eating 1 kilogram of milk chocolate before dinner. It’s more dumb than it is evil or criminal. The bigger the gap, the less likely it will last. Many ugly millionaires marry ugly women cause they want someone who loves them and won’t cheat on them and take half their money in a divorce.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Chances are they a relationship may just not have something to do with the age but they just do like each other

[Anonymous]

As a woman dating a man 15 years younger, I really hate this stereotype of the midlife crisis 'predatory' older woman creeping in on the younger man. I've gotten so much flack for it that it's not even funny.

Moreover, it's not even close to true (at least in my case). Firstly, he was the one who pursued me initially, and I was originally super hesitant because I was so concerned about the age gap. Moreover, we dated 3 months before we started having sex, so it's not like I 'pounced' on him like a creep.

Moreover, are women more 'predatory' than men? Absolutely not! In all honesty, if anything it's the other way around. However, there's not some term like 'cougar' for men who date much younger women.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If you think it's the other way around then it's because you keep hearing about it because a lot of the times when it is vice versa, it often goes unaddressed.

[Opinion Owner]

To clarify, I'm talking about older women dating younger men who are over the age of 18

[Aiko_E_Lara]

What I said still applies to that

[LiamJHayden]

"Creepy" and its variants are often quite subjective. I frequently date women 10+ years older than I am. I do not find it creepy in the slightest.

[Anonymous]

no it wouldn't. older men are uglier and creepier than older women

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then thanks for proving double standards

[Opinion Owner]

older men try to control younger women. older women don't try to control younger men. older men are obviously creepier

[Aiko_E_Lara]

As if vice versa don't happen. You're just trying to minimize that issue

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And also thanks for proving that women are most likely to get away with it

[Opinion Owner]

older women don't try to groom young men. only older men try to groom young women and I know this very well

[Aiko_E_Lara]

With your logic then I can say the same thing for old men and just say I know it too well. To backfire your own logic

[Opinion Owner]

young women don't groom old men lol. how dumb are you to think that?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If you read carefully I'm talking about old women dating young men. Are you trying to be blind on purpose to give yourself an excuse to call me dumb or are you just blind?

[Opinion Owner]

old men like you are mad you can't date young women like me.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Young "women" like you are mad because you can never grow up

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not mad. I've had 3 hot guys ask me out on a date this week. you're just bitter because no one will date you

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Annecdotes lol. I can also say I'm the president of the world and I got millions of women thirsty over me.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I can also say your mother left your dad for me

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And you have a stepsister who is not a feminist. Your mom never told you I'm banging on her

[Opinion Owner]

lol so many incel fantasies in that loser brain of yours

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Lol so many femcel fantasies in that loser brain of yours

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I mean if you like an adults then I'm giving you anecdotes. What's the problem?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*anecdotes

[Opinion Owner]

lol I'm not a femcel. I have a boyfriend. you can't even get a date

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then I am not an incel. I fucked your mom. You can't even get a date

[Opinion Owner]

my mom wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then your "boyfriend" would never touch you 10 foot pole

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Even your imaginary boyfried would cheat on you

[Opinion Owner]

keep whining and being bitter. young men don't regret relationships with older women. young women regret relationships with older men who abuse them.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

keep whining and being bitter. young women don't regret relationships with older men. young men regret relationships with older women who abuse them.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not whining and being bitter. you're whining and bitter how young women not wanting to date you because you have fragile masculinity

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I'm not whining and being bitter. you're whining and bitter how young women cannot grow up to actually date

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*You women like you

[Opinion Owner]

we can get dates. even disgusting old creeps hit on us. no one hits on you because you're a loser

[Aiko_E_Lara]

We can get dates. Even disgusting old witches hit on us. No one hits on you because you're a loser

[Opinion Owner]

lol no one believes you can get dates. that's why you whine about not being able to date young women because they don't want your old wrinkly ass

[Aiko_E_Lara]

lol no one believes you can get dates. that's why you whine about not being able to date at all because you can have to grow up to be legal to date.

[DarkLegacy]

The same pink troll calling people creeps and losers, there is nothing wrong with it being the other way round.

[DarkLegacy]

Stupid brainwashed feminist

[DarkLegacy]

How pathetic to call a 26 year old guy a old man.

[DarkLegacy]

@Aiko_E_Lara It is just a troll saying the same thing on every question, she could be 100 and be too young mentally to date lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I know. I just love destroying those trolls with their own logic.

[NathanDavis]

both are nonsense

[Anonymous]

it's only creepy if the older man is ugly