Stretch marks and loose skin? Dealbreaker?

[444serene]

My kids dad was extremely hurtful about my body after kids and left me….. I want to re enter the “dating” world….. im a romantic at heart and being a single this long has been really depressing…. Im just so scared of the rejection….. I would love an honest opinion. Is this too much? Would it be a dealbreaker for you?

[jennifer_bloom]

It goes away with weight loss and nutritious eating. Biotin which is made by combining yogurt with fruit can build collagen over time. Calorie reduction or energy spending can trigger the deletion of dead skin cells. Skin acupuncture can improve circulation as well as tanning and exercise or massage or sauna heating. Ketosis can also trigger the digestion of extra fat. And I find eating a lemon peel makes you look years younger every time. Not recommended for sensitive teeth cause it could lead to cavities or oral bacterial. A store clerk said coconut oil can help too.

[444serene]

Im actually pretty skinny that is all loose skin.

[Anonymous]

Yes but no. It depends on what men you’re trying to pursue. If you’re looking for a top tier man chances are no he’s not going to want that. Especially if he has many options of younger, hotter women w no kids. Now if you’re ok w a dude who not many women look at, maybe isn’t the best looking or tallest, or the richest, than there’s a good chance he will be ok w it cause chances are he doesn’t get much play from women. There are a lot of single men out there who would make good providers, fathers, etc. But many women complain they can’t find one. That’s because they’re all looking over these men who again aren’t the most handsome, the tallest or richest. I can think of two male friends I’ve known for a long time that I as a man think are great examples of what a man should be. But because they’re not the cutest, these women won’t even look at them. I don’t know if there’s much you can do to tighten it up a little. I read your comment that you said you’re pretty much skinny.

[Finchie40]

Your ex is a complete asshole and a selfish POS person , so don’t change who you are as a person and don’t blame yourself for his selfish actions. People like him do not know how to love anyone but themselves , so he did you a favor by leaving you because he is clearly a POS person , that shouldn’t mean anything to you anymore because you didn’t leave , He did. His time will come when he realizes how much of an asshole he is. As for
You? , don’t change yourself to appease anyone , just focus on yourself and your children and you will eventually meet someone that actually has a heart that isn’t a POS person. When someone actually loves you? They love you for who you are not for what they expect you to be to appease them , Kick those type of people to the curb , because they should mean nothing to you , Selfish people are absolutely pathetic people that have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. Realize you deserve better than that shit

[DreamCrescent]

i wouldn’t say dealbreaker but you don’t look your best or feel it, right?


i would go ahead and book a few cryotightening sessions. to firm things up, you’re not fat but there’s saggy skin, which childbearing will do. you’re able to tighten that right back up these days.


it’s worth the cost

[HawkPerception]

Let's be clear that there will always be guys that want to be with you, however if you want someone to not care about your appearance, you should expect to do the same for them.

It's not necessarily a dealbreaker depending in the guy, but it isn't an attractive physical trait either.

My advice is that you continue working out hard at the gym and maintain your health for the future. Try not to get lazy about it. It will increase your confidence.

And if you're truly insecure, there's skin removal surgery, but that can be quite expensive ranging from $5000 to $15000

[HawkPerception]

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[BetaBucks]

To ME yes, to 90% of Americans, no. And all it takes is one, so who cares what I think, or what the guys on GAG think. There are countless dudes that want you.

But what I think you're actually asking is "do I have to lower my standards in men because of this?" And the answer is yes. Not dramatically though.

[DarkWinterNights]

He left you because you didn’t bounce right back after having his kids?


Regardless, it’s probably not going to impact your dating much. Having kids in general will make it much harder, mostly due to custody laws. But dating isn’t really a great experience for anyone these days.

[nawtee_me]

This is by no means your fault and this happens a lot. It happens because people are attracted to looks alone and get into relationships based on that. Personally I see nothing wrong with loose skin and stretch marks. That is a normal process when having kids.

[animalwithin]

To me yes, this would be a deal breaker. If it's all loose skin, there are great procedures out there to fix that.

[RavVid]

It is offputting to be honest but I have seen worse.

[dreamstar72]

Not a deal breaker. What I saw of your face you look adorable

[Juxtapose]

It's rather off putting but it can be fixed and even if not.. it's not the end of the world.

[controlleddecent]

no you can tone your belly up but the stretch marks are from having baby's and if a guy gives a shit fuck him. real dads and men would not care !

[Lokiion]

Stretch marks cute lose skin shows progress so no it’s not a deal breaker

[jahaims]

The skin isn't a deal breaker. Having a baby daddy is.

[Anonymous]

No, and you have beautiful lips, so screw that guy. I hope you're getting child support and alimony.

[Abdulwahh]

Honestly I see a part of your face and I think it's pretty if the face is pretty then I don't mind some loose skin.

[war_daddy]

bad genetics. yes dealbreaker. but lots of guys don't care

[Avicenna]

Nope

[ProbablyClueless]

Most guys aren't going to care

[noohair]

Not an issue for this old man.

[Jason2469]

Yes. My dick could never get hard

[Anonymous]

Your five year old kids left you?

[Yannae]

No, it's natural.

[MackBoy]

No problem

[In_Trance]

No it isn't