Why are the "nice guys" so unsettling? (Page 2)

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I was talking to guy for a week, not even. I think it was six days. I should've known something was abut off because on the app I didn't respond fast enough and he was like "well ok, bye guess you are too busy to talk" it had only been like 2 hours. I brushed it off thinking "maybe I was abit rude' so he asked for my contact information. I gave him my snap, and we started talking. Mind you I have a kid (infant) and a full time WFH job. He knew that. He would repeatedly message me, I have two phones one for work and one for personal usage. I keep the personal one on silent during my work hours and only check it during my breaks or when the calls have slowed down and my baby doesn't need him. I kept the conversation up, responding and you know being active in the conversations, but every once in awhile he'd give me like a passive aggressive text like I could feel the attitude through the message ya know? He asked did I want to come over this weekend, but I told him I don't like going over to people's house's the first meet, plus my mom's birthday was this weekend and she wanted to go with her boyfriend. She asked me could I watch my grandma for the weekend, he said "can't you just leave her alone? It won't hurt her" I said she's 98(99 next month) and sge has dementia and she's wheelchair bound she cannot be alone. He was like "yeah, ok, I guess" I told him next week, and not at his place. I looked at the messages the snap this morning cause I saw a notification, but when I went to say "good morning" he blocked me on the app and on Snapchat, so I'm just like. "Wtf" I mean I definitely dodged a bullet, but Jesus he was doing too much. It looked like he was trying to love bomb me with all these compliments, praises and constant messages. Like already really clingy. I try to give everyone a chance, but those nice guys have this odd pattern of being this weird.

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