How common are nice guys and why can't they see that they're the problem?

[dpy87]

These type of dudes really piss me off because they think they deserve something in return for their "nice" behavior. Then they get all butt hurt when rejected. I don't understand how they got this way but they clearly have no knowledge of how to talk to a girl. I feel bad for them actually because I don't know how any girl would find them attractive.

[Don-__-Don]

I personally never knew any real life "nice guys", but based on the internet there's a whole lot of them.

[serious]

Yes being 100% nice and having all good and positive qualities is a total waste of time and is useless in today's world.

I suppose they just cannot help being themselves. I suppose they lack intelligence and the ability to understand things.

[Anonymous]

They aren’t real nice guys. They’re nice guys because they want something, then when they’re denied they drop their act. Because they’re fake.

[Opinion Owner]

Apparently it’s too much of a chore for people to be nice and respectful without thinking everyone owes them something in return.

[WhiteGlaze]

I think sometimes they are owed something. a lot of advantage being taken out there. a lot of bullshit. Everyone is mostly built out of their own set of experiences, if they care and show it to the best of their ability, they deserve something. If its half assed and not much effort put in it and done out of expecting something from it, then yeah they dont deserve much

[dpy87]

Ya how common are fake nice guys?

[WhiteGlaze]

Quite common, I guess technically I was one. But noticed what I was acting like and straightened myself up. Then Covid hit and haven't really implemented it anywhere but hey its that thought that counts I guess

[Anonymous]

Dude.. Those aren't nice guys, they are narcissists with chips on their shoulders. they also tend to be white knights, and male feminists.