Do you blame yourself for being lonely?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First off, I'm not lonely. I'm single but I'm not lonely. And NO, but I do play my part. By that I mean I am who I am. I put forth effort, but so must she. And I'm not going to beg ANY woman to be in my life. I know my worth. But I'm not going to beg a woman to see it. That would be counter-productive for one. Because if she's not smart enough to see the value i bring then what does that say about her ability to see ANYTHING obvious in a relationship? In other words if she doesn't see my worth without my help then she's just saving me from what would inevitably be a BAD relationship.

I think this a problem with too many men today is they need to understand. You cannot fix women. They have to fix themselves. A man should never chase a woman. A man should be himself. And if it happens to attract her interest then away you go. Men need to understand a woman's love does NOT define him. Too many men men today do not understand this. They have it all backwards.

Skinhead-1979 · Accepted Answer

"The feeling of being lonely is not because you do not have any people in your life; Lonely is the feeling that no one cares"

I have people in my life; at any time I can go out of my flat and either go meet someone or I end up in conversations with strangers... but I am a 'popular loner'; I know a lot of people, and a lot of people know me... but I am usually by myself' (with my 2 Ferrets).

TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

If I was lonely, I'd blame myself/take responsibility because it's not someone else's fault that I'm lonely...

But, I don't feel lonely, even though I am single. I think I'm in a pretty good place as far as that goes.

Account · Accepted Answer

I am actually never lonely, alone yes. But lonely no.

DishLady · Answer

I'm not lonely, but I'm alone for a reason and like being able to make and keep my own schedule. I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

blaming doesn't solve anything... if you are lonely find the reason and fix it...

HawkPerception · Answer

Yeah my life is my fault. Nothing's really holding me back. I just need to make some money, hit bars, and socialize

exitseven · Answer

No, I was very busy for the last 30 years trying to raise a family and provide for them. As a result I sort of drifted apart from all my friends. A few of them have died as well.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'm not lonely, but if I ever were it would be my fault as I have an extroverted personality so no excuse.

Anonymous · Answer

Not blame myself or anything else but the fact that not everyone gets lucky enough to have someone in there life.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I'm neither lonely nor alone.

thatshydork · Answer

Ehh sometimes yes, sometimes no.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never been lonely.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

To some extent, yes.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, that's society's fault.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

As an introvert? Absolutely.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I'm not a FEMCEL to blame men for that

legalboxers · Answer

Im selective who I want in my inner circles

daskapitalllll · Answer

nah, i prefer to be alone

laly520 · Answer

not lonely

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

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