Guys do y'all give second chances after being dumped?

[Xena555]

[DishLady]

I’ll give a second and even third chance to a person, but in the end an ex is an ex for a reason. When dating, there’s no point in taking back an ex bc any reformation tends to be temporary and bad habits get worse over time (esp when they see you’re forgiving). So forgive, but also keep your distance.

[Anonymous]

I mean if something just didn’t work out the first time. Maybe it’s something as simple as moving away, maybe being busy with work, school, etc.

But just dumping without exclamation. No…. Sorry. But no. Some people dump a guy/gal to be with someone else Or because they think they can find better. But when it doesn’t work out. They come back. Fuck that noise

[Finchie40]

Depends on what caused the break up in the first place , if she cheated on me? Then no , she becomes a whore to my eyes , if we broke up because we had some differences and not on the same page as things , then possibly, if her and I choose to work things out. So it comes down to what initiated the break up in the first place

[Damaged00]

No. If someone dumped you then it was for a reason. They were obviously unsure about you. So them coming back has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. Their circumstances changed. They could be lonely, horny, sad, or miss what you did for them. If you were someone they wanted they would've never dumped you in the first place.

[ManInChains]

I gave. Y ex a second chance after she cheated on me. She went back to the other guy after he got out of jail on a heartbeat. I stopped giving second chances after that. Then I was falsely accused by a new woman who turned out to be a feminist. That’s when I stopped giving a shit about women in general

[Xena555]

Damn the hell with her... I didn't cheat neither did he tho I kinda self sabotaged but also I was annoyed he wouldn't communicate. Now since broken up he communicates

[Serkee]

Nope. If you dumped me and want to get back together then you're probably gonna dump me again when you get bored or when things get inconvenient for you. I don't want to be with someone that fickle. You clearly don't care about me, things probably just didn't work out with the guy you dumped me for and I'm your fallback plan.

[silvermoon84]

Most don’t but I know a few who do. One of them being a friend of mine who keeps chasing this one girl who uses him for free meals and money. The other one was my ex who was in an on and off relationship for over a decade with a known cheater. She came back into his life when we were dating and of course he left me to be with her (again). He’s married to her now and last I heard she’s still cheating on him. Go figure!

[getpucksin]

I hope your friend chasing the girl snaps out of it

[silvermoon84]

@getpucksin I hope so too. We all told him to stop. He still goes to see her though and he thinks we don’t know. He still talks about her when our friend group goes out together, but now he doesn’t call her by her name, he just calls her “my friend who has the kid”. For the longest time, we didn’t know it was her until one girl in our group put two and two together and figured it out.

[getpucksin]

Wow. Either he has a thing for being taken advantage of, or very bad attachment issues; Both ways it should definitely come to an end.

[serious]

I have always been single so this never happened with me. However, even to answer this hypothetically my answer would be "No". Never.

[itsannalee]

I gave 2nd chance to my ex just to make him pay for what he did to me. Nothing is free.

[McLlovin]

No i dont. If she trying to get back … she's just lonely and im actually helping her by not receiving her back.

[DaddyDiablo]

Yes even after being cheated on evidentially sad I know but dam do i have a lot of love...

[pregananant]

I am so cynical that I would have already accepted that things are officially over. I'd be completely perplexed by being given a second chance.

[Unit1]

Not happening

[DextroShade]

Maybe, assuming she did something to make it up to me and hasn't fucked another guy during the breakup.

[Anonymous]

Given that the primary reason a girl wants out of a relationship in the first place is to fuck another dude, it's not the most sensible thing in the world to take her back.

[getpucksin]

To kill time, sure. Once they are your ex they are not a real option

[FarmBoy13]

For sex yes…… for a relationship it would depend on the whole dumping situation

[WodensGedriht]

No. I'd only consider giving second chances if it's me doing the dumping.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Nope. And they're blocked

[Anonymous]

Yes if you can keep having sex.

[Xena555]

Sex? Seriously because thats all he wants (scorpios are horn dogs anyways)

[Opinion Owner]

Umm... a lot of the other guys said sex also. It's the obvious answer to this question. What other reason would there be for going back to someone who dumped you?

[EmmaMary]

NEVER.

[Anonymous]

For just sex, bit she's already proven she gives up when it isn't all sunshine and rainbows so a committed relationship would be a waste of time

[Xena555]

Well i dumped him because I gave him numerous times to communicate seems like now since broken up he's been "communicating"

[StudyingAuthor]

nope.

[StudyingAuthor]

Just reread the question lol. Thought you said girls.

[Xena555]

Lol log off 🤣

[Xena555]

Why not even if it wasn't no infidelity involved

[StudyingAuthor]

bc if they broke up with me I ain't gonna run back to them. They prob won't hear a peep from me after anyways.

[Yannae]

Not once.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[aquamarine321]

No i don’t

[missindiana93]

Nope

[Twalli]

Probably not