Is dating or being asked out basically a man asking a woman for her services?

[Tkgkgkf]

Let’s face it most men just want to get into her pants ASAP despite saying they don’t want that. I’ve been lied to many times and left after they get what they truly wanted.

so every time a man even if he is nice expresses interest I’m just thinking ok he wants my “services”. It’s basically feels like a job at this point.

[ProbablyClueless]

No. Lots of men ask women out on dates because they genuinely want to date the woman they're asking out.

You might be surprised how many connections fall apart because of women's behavior as relationships are getting started. It happens a fair amount where things will be going well and we'll be getting closer, and suddenly the woman gets really intense, forceful, and controlling

[Tkgkgkf]

I get controlled by men in relationships so I can’t relate

[natured]

Why not directly ask? See something I can't stand is most of people try to find out by trying, when all you can do is ask beforehand...
TELL THEM : Hey so by the way, not to seem weird, but please don't get your hopes up, I'm not that kind of woman nor I'm i looking for something like that, Not trying to waste your time
I always did that nobody ever died, and it saved me from a lot of trouble, and I saved a lot of TIME

[Xoirwinkan]

It is not unrelated but more men have a romantic side than you might think. Most men aim to get a loving and loyal wife in the end, and that's not all about sex. Often times it seems that men get their romantic side beaten down from getting rejected by women to much or by getting cheated on.

[teamvic]

Thinking like that is a great way of being unhappy forever

[Berethor]

You could waited until marriage if you don't want to be used but it's too late for that now.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Some men may view it that way, but not all.

[paledreams]

Hell probably and the women themselves probably know that ♀️ every woman worth her brain cells on the face of this earth past and present

[Inthelines]

I am against relationships outside of marriage, I think the same way you do.

[Tkgkgkf]

How do you get to marriage without a guy asking you out