How many dates/months does it take before you decide to become official?

[Anonymous]

I have a 10 date max rule. Anything beyond that is just wasting my time. What about you? I’ve heard others do 5 dates, or 6 weeks, or 3 months.

[Anonymous]

About 3 months is my window of time. I wouldn’t base this decision off number of dates if they’re happening too close in proximity to one another.

[Anonymous]

Once you're going out every weekend it's pretty official. Official just means you're exclusive. When you're seeing each other so much that there isn't time to see anyone else it's kinda dumb NOT to be official

[ArrowheadSW]

Nothing set really, in my opinion. You might have a few dates, then none for awhile, then pick it back up later. Some of it has to do with how seriously someone is looking.

[Nikki1989]

You should know by 3 dates maximum if there is any chance of a future with someone.

[LiamJHayden]

No set number as long as it is proceeding forward rather than stagnant.

[Kathryn1993]

About month when you trust them 99%.

[Anonymous]

Never been in a relationship