Please help me clear my confusion?

[Anonymous]

I am in a long time relationship, but I recently started fucking someone else and it was so fun and satisfying until i lost appetite for fucking my man, am now trying to stop mysef from fucking the other guy so i can get back to wanting my man… will i get the feelings for my man back?
I also miss the other guy, but he knew i am in a relationship and he come for sex when i denied him he started acting cold but i really want to mend my relationship with my man… if i force myself to have sex with him will i still feel the same like i dd the first times? Can i completely forget the side and concentrate on the main man? Has it ever happened to you? What did you do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow that's really complicated...

I get that you were feeling things for this other guy, but messing around when you're already with someone isn't cool. It's good you wanna fix things with your man, but you gotta be real with yourself too - are you truly happy in your relationship? Sometimes those feelings fade over time.

If I were you I'd take a break from both guys and do some serious thinking. Figure out what you really want. It'll be hard to forget about the side guy completely, but focusing on your main guy again could help. Spend quality alone time together doing fun stuff, have deep talks, reconnect physically without any pressure. See how it feels.

Just be honest with yourself - is the grass really greener, or are there underlying issues in your relationship? Forcing anything usually doesn't end well. Take care of yourself first before trying to salvage anything. Maybe see if a break would help give you perspective. I know it's confusing, but just follow your heart and what feels right long term. Wish I could help more, let me know if you ever wanna chat!

[Texaskid1]

By the power invested in me by the Great State of Texas - I hereby declare your confusion to be cleared.

Now be a nice girl and go make me a sandwich.

[jojouzumaki]

😯 It’s kinda funny when we are dishonest even with our ourselves. As you thrive to make excuses… it’s just that you’re confused! It’s not confusion it’s your choice. You’re absolutely not confused during sleeping with the other guy. Weren’t you?

[LazerMan]

you disloyal it disgrace