Should my boyfriend be mad that I’m now friends with all guys?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always been jealous of my boyfriend’s social life. He’s friends with both guys and girls and would go to parties without me. I felt insecure that I never had a life outside of him and felt like a big loser compared to him. I wanted to show him that I can be social and have a separate friend group too. I joined a gaming club at our college because I love video games and I was the only girl there. At first I felt awkward that I was the only female, but the guys enjoyed my company and said they always wanted a girl to be apart of their group. I started hanging out with them when my boyfriend was with his friends and I started playing video games and going to the gym with my new guy friends. I even started drinking and smoking with them. One day when my boyfriend was at a party with his friends he posted a picture with them on his snap story. I was with my guy friends that night and we were smoking weed. I had enough so I took a photo with them and posted it on my snap story with a caption that said. “Smoking weed with the boys.” My boyfriend saw it and got mad at me. He said I shouldn’t be hanging out with all guys. I don’t get why he’s not happy for me that I now have my own social life away from him. Was I wrong for doing that? I finally have my own friend group and he’s not even happy for me.

[CuriousHubby]

He is feeling left out like you did. Also probably not happy your doing drugs with them.

Reverse this would you be happy if all his friends were girls and he smoked weed?

Probably think he was going to sleep with one of them.

Honestly I get it your in a good spot for yourself and he should be happy but he is upset.

Maybe find a balance and why is he at a party without you?

[beefcakebradybatson]

He has boy and girl buds, and you seem to have all guy pals. Perhaps because of this he thinks you're casting about for a new partner, so explain to him that they're buds not boyfriends, and try to become more of a chick's chick.

[In_Trance]

You're both delusional and should go your separate ways

[Asker]

I don’t think you know what delusional is

[In_Trance]

Likewise

[beefcakebradybatson]

Delusional :A Chicago White SUX fan !!!(They're 36-117, tied with the 1916 Philadelphia A's for modern MLB'S worst record).

[jahaims]

You are too immature for a healthy relationship

[Asker]

None of this would have happened if my boyfriend didn’t include me in his group or invite me to the parties he was going to. I’m his girlfriend and he should include me to hang out with his guy and girlfriends. He would always post shit with them on his snap stories and would have a fun time without me so I chose to have a fun time without him and have him see it on my social media. He finally felt my pain for once.

[jahaims]

You are deflecting blame and accountability just like an immature person would. Ty for proving my point.

[Walksbehindtherows]

Probably