Do all men expect a woman who earns the same as them yet does all the housework or is it an exclusively INDIAN thing?

[Babygirl_S]

Why should I be the man and the woman of the house? They have these demands because Indian girls allow that? Many are married to such men and do all the housework while he just goes to work and watches TV in free time.

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So he wants a pretty virgin with white skin who earns a lot and does all the housework and what does he bring to the table?
An ugly face, dark skin, less or equal money, no help at home, a history of sex with prostitute or at least one girlfriend, a small penis, a fat tummy and poor skills in the bedroom.
He might as well have his cake and eat it too because an Indian woman is almost never valued as much as an Indian man all over the world

[LiamJHayden]

It should depend. I have my job rigged so I probably really work, as in must focus only on that, 20 hours per week at most, and most of that is from my house. If I were with a lady who worked 40 hours per week outside the house, I'd do almost all of the housework even if I made five times what she earns.

[DrPepper12]

Sorry. Indian patriarchy RUNS VERY DEEP for a variety of reasons. If you really want to be free you HAFTA leave that region & life behind. Sorry but that's the truth.

[Ariesman81]

Well... let's see here... last week I fixed my Mother's water heater which saved her $2500 over the new one the repair man said she needed. What did I get... my house cleaned. The week before that... I replaced the water pump in my younger sister's car. Saved her $500. What did I get... cookies. But keep telling us we don't deserve to watch TV.

[Red_Arrow]

Not all men, though some seem to think it is the way to be. Lots of men respect their woman very much!

[renodnol32]

I would expect contributions to the housework or running the house from both parties. If in the subcontinent, since both are working it would make sense to hire a maid and/or helper to get the bulk of the housework done.

[slatyb]

I think that's mostly an Indian thing. Just say no.

[TallAnon]

I expect her to carry her weight, if she doesn't work, she'll have to find other ways to be useful; If she does, we'll share the household burden or get someone else to do it for us.

[bowenw]

It seems to be that way in some cultures regardless of how inequitable it is.

[Rohaan2020]

Many people including both men and women chose to stay single for such reasons… and i guess it’s the best idea for both the genders

[Avicenna]

Probably an Indian thing

[Bklynbadboy12]

No we can do house work but it's other things I expect my wife to do

[RedInnocent69]

You poor thing.

[Amur8711]

I do not expect her to make the same as me.