What was the one thing about your significant other that pretty much locked in that you wanted to be with them?

Question

What was just one thing and only one thing that you can name that stood out the most?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

right from the get-go...

"now you're mine"

such, playful and genuine confidence... the timing, the vibes... the way she said it, and they way she looked at me before, as... and after she, said, that

she, of course... was being funny and flirty at the moment, because we had just met, but the intention of it, to make herself clear that she "had a feeling" and was very much interested and absolutely intrigued by me... and then I could just not help it but to feel the same way about her, now... many other times I had been hit on out of nowhere, and yeah... their intentions were also clear (something way more casual though) but never like her

in no other occasion I felt it the way she made me feel that day so, no wonder we ended up together a couple of weeks later...

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Hmmm…sounds weird, but…she bought me a winter coat, lmao. I was always the “shorts ‘year-round, hoodie in the winter” kind of guy. And she was like “No. Absolutely not.”🤨 And I of course was resistant, assured her it was fine, it’s only bad in snowstorms or wicked cold weather, and I had a second hoodie to layer if it came down to it, haha.

But she went and surprised me with a very nice North Face jacket, that was really cool of her. I just thought it was a very sweet and caring move, a lot of other women would’ve just rolled their eyes and been like “whatever, you’re an idiot, dude…”, haha. In her mind, she’s probably saying “Jesus…. gotta mother another one of these bozos.”🤦‍♂️😂

But yeah, that’s definitely one of the things that endeared her to me.

Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

How he looks at me. We communicate very well. We have a wonderful sex life. He makes me ugly laugh often. But I melt with how he looks at me. You know that look in movies that we all wish our partners give us? It's that! It makes me yearn for him physically and emotionally.

It backfires though. Cause I can be angry at him, then he gives me that look and I'M ANGRIER THAT I CAN'T STAY MAD AT HIM

ariadneR · Accepted Answer

Nothing really stands out because everyday I find out something new that I'm like 'wow.

But the very first one was when he was telling me he was going back to school shopping for his nephew. His nephew was going to college. He was telling me everything they were gonna get and I was just listening with heart eyes lol

ohsheeT · Answer

I mean everything's kind of really just tied together but what I always like if a girl can smile and she's happy and she can laugh I really like that

AviatorTom · Answer

Our joint desire to travel to places we haven't been before.

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

Her looks definitely had me hooked! But the fact that she ignored me (she wasn't too fond of me at first) made me crazy for her. I usually get what I want but she humbled me, because she usually got what she wanted! While I was trying to win her over, as a game, I realized she actually changed the man that I once was and I actually fell in love with her. She has a very strong will but can be very forgiving.

rienna888 · Answer

Well my current boyfriend just didn’t give up on me. In the beginning when I got pissed off at him and ran off, he would always follow me until we’re okay again. And he just never gave up on me and I saw his efforts and intentions. He also told me I was the only girl he ever loved.

Beckybooboo · Answer

He was a gentleman and did it in a very sincere way. It was obvious that's how he was raised and he wasn't doing it for show and it continues today. If we have a son, he will be an unbelievable role model.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

it's never one thing for me... it's a cocktail of many things... his smile, sense of humor, his mind, ways his thoughts wander...

Laciejordan · Answer

When I invited him to go hiking (my favorite thing to do) and he jumped at the chance! Even said we should take backpacks with lunch. He isn't the outdoor type but him always willing to do new things that I enjoy really melted my heart.

Notherndude84 · Answer

Everything about her is amazing, I couldn’t imagine not being with her. I honestly tried to pinpoint one thing but it’s honestly hard to say. We’ve been together 5 years and we’re starting a family.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Huge assests. Jk. She's smart af and laughs at my sh*t jokes

ChillNsweet32 · Answer

Pretty much everything 🥰 The way I feel when I'm around him, it just feels so right. When we look at each other I still get butterflies sometimes like I did when we first met

Tarifa · Answer

She is very affectionate, but also has a strong character and knows what she wants. Makes it extra special that you're the one she chose to be with.

schoolgirlskirtcaley · Answer

Honestly… the sex was amazing. I was wet and horny all the time. ☺️😍

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Different reasons every time really. I feel strange at the perspective of summarizing this, so I won't do that lol

Wiredone · Answer

She has very sexy eyes. When I look into her eyes I just melt

Lilbit84 · Answer

How nice and charming he was. He was outgoing like me wanted the same things on life

Kabluie · Answer

butterflies in stomach feelings as we know that doesn't come around often (them being poly helped too)

Elliegirl · Answer

I guess how he always makes me laugh. It’s so hard to pick just one thing!

Caroline91 · Answer

He really saw me for who I am and liked what he saw.

SaoirseS · Answer

The ability to make the most mundane things and events both humorous and adventurous.

katiesmuff · Answer

The absolute perfect way he treated me and it has never wavered!

Nikki1989 · Answer

The same deep passion for music, his charm, and sense of humour.

Agape93 · Answer

A certain spark most people don't have. Hard to explain.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Those sweet monthly checks from her mom!! At the time I had zero dignity and was broke so... Yeah. 🤑

MoonFace2 · Answer

The last one, his sensitivity and intelligence.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I've never met someone as gentle as she is.

justheretoaskq · Answer

The day he took care of me when I was sick. And how much he cares for me like going to the store to cook me something, buy me food when I’m hungry. I love him with everything I got

Kreneman · Answer

A true beautiful woman of God that was waiting for a husband (The One) and that is what convinced me to propose to her quick.

Slim57 · Answer

The effort she puts into everything in the relationship

Anonymous · Answer

There were a lot of things, but the one thing I remember that really made me think "this is a woman I don't want to lose" was when she shyly asked me what I thought about anal sex.

Jerre · Answer

She wanted to fuck as much as I did.

elaphe · Answer

Her intellect- it made for stimulating conversations.

CubaPirate · Answer

Her eyes 👀 😍

Radiate143 · Answer

Their invisibility superpowers.

elizamichale1 · Answer

His love n care for me

Jpie555 · Answer

She gave amazing blowjobs!!!😛

Christian_Cartier · Answer

kindness/empathy.

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

My ex had the most amazing hair, legs and boobs

RossyBoi · Answer

I don't have a partner.

eagle1951 · Answer

don't remember

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve not felt that yet in life & hope never to

MicahRaine · Answer

She kissed me first

What was the one thing about your significant other that pretty much locked in that you wanted to be with them?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

What was the one thing about your significant other that pretty much locked in that you wanted to be with them?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.