Do you want an independent woman?

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And I mean fully independent like don’t need you, boss babe they call them.

I don’t like this type of girl. I think if you’re a man and you’re a bit lazy not willing to work hard on yourself you would want it but if you’re trying to go be successful, you want a girl that’s going to be more by your side and adapt, mould herself around your life.

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't mind it to a certain point, this can be stretched a lot tho so it depends, because the true definition of independence is not needing anyone else and even tho I know women have the ability to be independent, I wouldn't see any purpose of being in the life of an independent woman if she's truly independent, it would only mean I'm disposable and it's not where I see myself, I prefer a traditional woman but i won't reject a woman with independent qualities such as making her own money, having her own job and car, it starts crossing the line if she wants a house and wants to live seperated from me, I don't see a point of a partner if she's not living with me and of course if she wants to protect herself when I'm around her, I get it if I'm not around but I'm a protector by nature and it's a part of me, besides those two I'm okay with it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No way. Argumentative. I can do this. I can do that. No accountability. I’ve been w my girl for 15 years. If she was an independent woman we wouldn’t even be together. No to those women reading this I did t force my will upon her or something like she’s my slave. This is the life she also wanted. She doesn’t have to work. Has t worked for the last 12 years. We have a big house, two cars, kids, dogs, etc. This is what works for us. Not cause I forced her to live my lifestyle.

Gwendoline · Accepted Answer

I never got the independent woman thing. It seems like it's basically saying you are an adult. Some woman I talked to recently was talking about how no man owned her could I say the same and I was like no im married, I belong to a man and he belongs to me. All these lonely people who want to belong but don't want to be owned, want a partner to depend on but want to be independent. I'm not independent, Im married and we can depend on each other no matter what.

Caroline91 · Accepted Answer

I was until I got married. I still could be if I needed to be, if something happened to him. We have made sure either of us would be able to be independent and be able to raise our children, if it became necessary. But, we are a couple and we each depend on the other. Our lives are enriched by being able to depend on each other.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I think if you’re a man and you’re a bit lazy not willing to work hard on yourself you would be anonymous but if you’re trying to go be successful, you want a person that’s going to be more transparent and authentic, mould yourself around truth and integrity. 🤷🏽‍♂️

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

False premise.  You don't describe an independent woman at all here. Technically, an independent woman is a woman not living with her parents. Fully independent means she has a job and a home.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. A woman who can actually be an adult, which means she has a job, has a job, pays her own bills, etc... of course. That's just being a normal human being.

A woman who goes around saying "I am an independent woman"? Nope, I have no place in my life for a woman like that.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I like the theory of an independent woman, but there seems to be a lot of attitude and negative personality stuff that comes with it. I'm not such a fan of all that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I've dated a partner at a law firm. We got along fine, but just had different goals so mparted amicably. I own my business and house, and some rental units. I am not threatened by the success of another.

Unit1 · Answer

Man, you sick weirdos see everything only black and white: A girl is either a dependent gold digger or a an independent matriarch

MisterWack · Answer

Whatever she wants to be is up to her & I’ll support her every step of the way because she’d do the same for me. I love my girlfriend and I’m happy with her as she is happy with me.

Mwolf · Answer

I'm independent in general, with or without a man. In or not in, pre or post relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

No wonder you're single. You think women exist to adapt to your life but that you shouldn't ever have to. Have fun with your blowup doll.

slatyb · Answer

I would much rather be with a woman who didn't need me but chose me anyway.

RavVid · Answer

So long as she does what I tell her, I'm OK with her being and independent boss bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

Some men consider like submitting to the woman's will and letting her do the molding. They're called submissive. People on here will call them simps, and not real men. Whatever you call them, that's what some guys like.

MysticDevice · Answer

I want a woman who doesn't NEED me but WANTS me. If we're so capable by ourselves then imagine how good we'd be working together

exitseven · Answer

yes, she should be able to be self sufficient.

jard82521 · Answer

I think most if not all adults should be independent regardless

Anonymous · Answer

she's only independent until she needs your help including your vote for Kamala

Nikki1989 · Answer

Self-obsessed, are we?

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, if she is self-confident, dominant, assertive, and if she is my type of girl.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

lmOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO @_Maya_ duplicate trolll

Massageman · Answer

Prov 31 explains it all.

Reijen · Answer

No real point in dating them.

Anonymous · Answer

No thanks. I like the more delicate type.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

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