A girl asked me out very last minute should I go?

[Anonymous]

a girl asked me to hang out with her very last minute. if I say yes I am afraid of sounding desperate. but I wanna go. I am also busy with exams. If I tell her that my schedule is busy, will she take it as a rejection?

[slatyb]

Tell her that unfortunately you are very busy with upcoming exams, but you would very much like to see her after exams are over on [date]. Then ask her what would work for her. If she can't accept that, she's simply unreasonable and not someone you want to spend time with. A reasonable person would admire your ability to set priorities and plan ahead.

[Asker]

you are right!! thank you for your advice

[slatyb]

This isn't hard. There's no secret code. Just behave like an adult. If she can't handle that, she's not ready for a relationship.

[Avicenna]

You have to prioritize here.

[Asker]

what do you mean?

[Avicenna]

Your exams are more important

[Asker]

but would I lose my shot with her if I told her about my exams?

[Avicenna]

Maybe, but there are plenty of other women.

[Anonymous]

Is she hot? Where did she ask you out to? Are you likely to hook up?

[Asker]

she wanted to get drinks what do you think it means? she is hot!!!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah--you definitely need to do this. Do either you or her have a single room? Make sure you've got a good set up to get it on!

[Asker]

hahaha thanks for the advice, man

[Opinion Owner]

I hope it goes well! Please send an update from the date! Let us know what she's wearing and how flirty she seems. And if you bounce--update the folks at GAG! ;)

[Asker]

I'll definitely do that!!! ahahah thanks

[Iron_Man]

Yes go

[Asker]

what do you think she meant by getting drinks?

[Iron_Man]

go and find out

[Asker]

thanks for encouraging me man

[Iron_Man]

Good

[In_Trance]

Do you want to study or do you want to smash?

[Asker]

lmao obv smash but I have to graduate

[In_Trance]

If your hopes of graduation come down to one night of studying you've done something very wrong.

[Asker]

hahahha I am going then. but would she think of me as a desperate loser?

[In_Trance]

No more or less desperate than she is

[Asker]

true... thanks for the advice man!