I asked out this girl who I thought for sure would say yes. All the signs were there and even my friend was saying so and he usually doesn't pick up on this stuff. Well, let's just say that when I asked her, she asked who was going, and when I said just me, she said oh and said let's make it a group thing. So yeah, rejection.
Now she's trying to make it a group thing and I don't really want to go now. Should I just not show up? How should I interact with her?
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Depends on who's in the group. I agree with you that it's most likely her turning you down for anything you're interested in. But if she has some hot friends you might be interested in who you don't know, this could still work out for you. Just go in with the attitude of "I'm just going out with a group of new people and maybe I'll meet someone cool" and you'll be fine.
Remember though, the LAST thing you want to do in this "non-date" is try to win her over. That battle is already (most likely) lost. But if she thinks you're cool enough to hang out with, she may help you with other girls.1