I just found out that the guy that I was seeing had a girlfriend. Why did he only see me as a side chick?

[Anonymous]

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Before anyone says anything, I ghosted and blocked him three weeks ago. I’m just left wondering: Why was I side chick material? What does his girlfriend have that I clearly don’t have?

[Account]

Instead of sending him to hell, you compare yourself to his girlfriend and question your worth based on the actions of a shitty individual. It is unbelievable to me. He played both of you, you stopped talking yet you still care about feeling worthy in his eyes. The whole thing you are describing sounds unreasonable to me.

[Nikki1989]

He was using you for emotional or physical fulfillment. Sadly, it is one of the main entries in the typical male playbook.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's messed up, why? I don't think I'll ever know but either ways I'm sure what the best thing to do now is.

[Berethor]

I don't know if you side chick material or he just wanted to have two chicks.

[Anonymous]

I’m so sorry 😔 some men really don’t know what they want and only realise what they lost after the fact.

[jahaims]

It has nothing to do with you. He just doesn't respect women

[jazzy34]

He’s trash. Never speak to him again.