to some guys it doesn't matter what you look like or act like they won't pursue you or class you as anything worth committing to... those types always treat others with the same ways...
they try and use for personal gain so no one whether you are the nicest, most respectful or most caring person on the planet they will not treat you the way you deserve to be...
the only guys who will are genuine ones who are willing to commit and settle down...
the guy who you mentioned was a player and is looking for his next notch on the bed, but wants to do it either while retaining his current girlfriend, which ensures he has someone who he can fall back to when things dont work out or he's attempting to try seeing where it takes him, so few months/years down the line you would become that girlfriend he's now cheating on when someone else catches his eye
Just bc he had a girlfriend does not mean you are just side piece material. He obviously finds you attractive and wants to get with you. Says more about him and his girlfriend than it does about you tbh
if you dress in low cut , cleavage showing tight tops , tight pants , short skirts and shorts , revealing clothes and such then males may think of you as a - hoe - ! I dress covered from my shoulders to below my knees skirts and I still get males attention too so maybe you get this attention from a man because he likes the way you dress and may decide that he would rather have you then his present girlfriend ! just do yourself a favor and keep the sex until you are married to your husband
What makes you think it’s your doing? He likely just finds you attractive and tried his luck, hoping you’d be easy. Good for you for not going for it.
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He may have just wanted to add to his harem of ass. It doesn't mean he wouldn't want to be your boyfriend (where he would still cheat because he's garbage) if he was single.
I don't know enough about you to say it had something to do with you. He might proposition any female.
He doesn‘t respect women and just uses her for sex and other things.
You need to show yourself first, Can help if you wanna talk?
You allowed yourself to become a sidechick.
Maybe it's the way you dress and speak
That sucks. He is a bastard.
Nothing, he's just a scumbag asshole
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